From intense one-night stands to magical wands: Allira Potter knows sex.

When it comes to the art of conversation, I have a rather rogue ability to derail them completely and turn the topic focus to... you guessed it: sex. While I see that as a benefit, or an opportunity to have the person I'm talking to think more critically about sex, it's not always the direction my chatting partner wants to take things in.

So when a conversation kickstarts with sex, and shows no signs of wandering off anywhere else, it's a real treat.

Almost as great as a treat as Allira Potter. 

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For those who don’t know her (seriously, get on Instagram immediately and educate yourself on this legend), Allira is what many would describe as a 'slashie'. She's a healer/psychic/author/influencer/body positivity movement member/meditation teacher/reiki practitioner/life coach - and I'm pretty sure that's just the tip of the iceberg.  

She's recently released her first novel, Wild & Witchy, which is a “guidebook” for life that will allow readers to bring in their most abundant life ever. And one element of life Allira won't be ignoring is sex, connection and intimacy - in both her book and this interview.

So let's dive into her thoughts, okay?

What Allira looks for during sex...

"I feel that challenging the norms around sex is important due to my enjoyment of all sexual experiences, from intense one-night stands to intimate connection sex with those I am close with. I very much believe that sex should be an experienced centred around connection, pleasure and honest empowerment of our bodies."

Allira on the difference between sex and intimacy...

"People often talk about intimacy as just another word for sex. However, it is something much more than the physical act. Personally, I believe that connection, pleasure and honest empowerment of our bodies allows us to achieve a heightened level of sexual pleasure. It is also incredibly important for people to embrace their own sexuality and hold no shame around sex and intimacy.

"I have found that sex toys allow me to embrace this. Adding sexual wellness products to your routine provides numerous benefits to your bedroom experience. Whether it be on your own or with a partner, sex toys are an empowering way to explore parts of your body in new and exciting ways. Not only this, but they can certainly enhance your connection with a partner."

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Allira on incorporating sex toys into your life...

"It is important to understand the role of communication when using sex toys. A healthy interaction isn't just about talking. Intimacy extends into the communication you share while using the toys themselves. Listening to a partner during these moments allows us to understand their pleasure more, while strengthening the bond between the two of you. This heightened bond can bring about a new level of confidence that you can carry throughout your daily life. 

"Times have certainly changed regarding the discussion surrounding sex toys, and the brands associated with them. Thanks to brands such as Lovehoney, who are working to normalise conversations around sex, sex toys and sexual happiness. Now they have become a part of our everyday life and are more openly spoken about. Gone are the days where we need to shy away from talking about sex and sex toys. 

"To celebrate this, I’ve put together a few of my top picks from Lovehoney’s range of sexual wellness products, perfect for anyone who is looking to boost their sexual happiness."

Allira's favourite sex toys.

Womanizer X Lovehoney Pro40 Rechargeable Clitoral Stimulator, $169.95.

"This one is a real game changer! Offering suction and pulsating vibrations, there are six intensity levels for varying sensations. With a silken silicone design that fits right into your hand, it basically puts the 'wow' in orgasm. I’d recommend using some water-based lubricant around the rim to increase sensation during use."

Image: Lovehoney + Mamamia. 

Lovehoney Wild Weekend Mega Couple's Sex Toy Kit (11 Piece), $129.95.

"I believe this is the perfect kit for beginners who want to kick off a touch of sexual exploration without the pressure. With eleven toys included, this kit allows for some solo pleasure time or to explore some sweet sensations with a partner. Featuring vibrators, anal toys, cock rings and more. It really is just a case of closing your eyes and experiencing some adventurous bedroom fun."

Lovehoney Mains Powered Classic Metallic Magic Wand, $89.95.

"When I’m in the mood, this is one of the first things I’ll reach for. Perfect for solo use or shared intimate play and massage, this powerful wand is an absolute essential for those wanting to achieve total satisfaction in the bedroom. The multispeed pulsations also allow for all kinds of build up to nail any kind of intimate session."

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