SUBS: The Third Wheel That's Ruining My Relationship

SUBS: The Third Wheel That's Ruining My Relationship

Outlouders, buckle up for the steamiest sex dilemmas of the week.

First up, we're navigating the tricky politics of introducing a vibrator to your relationship. You know the drama – where good intentions meet fragile egos and suddenly you're tiptoeing around bedroom boundaries like you're defusing a bomb. Em's armed with stats and stories that we really can't argue with.

Speaking of bedroom anxieties, we're also diving into oral insecurities. If you've ever spiralled about your performance between the sheets, then this dilemma will hit home. We've got a relatable pep talk that will hopefully boost this Outlouder's confidence.

Plus, we help one Outlouder who has found herself in the most mortifying situation – having to explain her vibrator to her new school mum friend. Because nothing says "welcome to the neighbourhood" quite like an awkward sex toy conversation, right?

And we share some of our own hilariously embarrassing spicy stories that we can't believe we're saying out loud. You'll have to listen if you want to know.

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