Well, here we are. My identical triplet girls (Shannen, Kaitlin and Courtney) are finally adults, and I am so proud. Life in our family has been a roller coaster from the day we found out we were expecting triplets.
Finding out we were pregnant with triplets.
There were big changes in the year 2000. A bigger car, my boys 10 and 12 yrs had to learn to share a room and my attention. Endless bottles, nappies, clothing, bathing, feeding….it all seemed so overwhelming. So, we formed a production line, and organised a routine that got our girls to adulthood with my sanity still intact. Not to say there weren’t times when I questioned my ability to parent, but I realised I’d been given this amazing task and damn it, I was going to get it right.
Bec Judd shares what it’s like being pregnant with twins:
Teens and broken hearts.
I was dreading these years. Girls on a hormone trip isn’t pleasant, and yes we had some rough moments, but, I kept myself open to their worries, I listened to them and hugged them and cried with them. I kept them as close to me as possible, they needed their Mum, and I was there. Thank goodness I never let them push me away as some teens do to their mums. I hung on, even though my heart was breaking at times. To see your babies go through pain is not easy. It did pay off though, because today we have the closest bond, the deepest love, a mutual respect, and I’m grateful.
Sweet 16 times three.
Three peas in a pod, that’s my girls. They are close, they are best friends, sisters, confidantes. They are growing into beautiful, smart young women right before my eyes. We do so much together, the five of us. Dad is a big part of their lives as well, his princesses, and their big brothers are living their own lives, but visit a lot, and are always there as protectors for their little sisters.
Life is just as busy as when the girls were little. Mum’s taxi, always running them everywhere… school, jobs, to friends. Shopping is always fun with the girls, they value my input on just about everything, even clothes. The highlight is watching people staring and trying to work out if they are seeing triple! It’s funny, we all get a good giggle out of it.