It’s something every working parent knows to be true: returning to work after having a baby is a difficult process. There’s so much to consider, such as childcare, the logistics of how each day will go, and then, of course, the job itself.
Marshall, 32, who is co-host of the podcast with Sean Szeps, has 10-month-old Fox with NRL player husband Benji Marshall.
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Explaining that she loved returning to work on radio after having Fox, the mum-of-one noted that no matter how hard she tried to ensure it all went smoothly, she found that other people’s thoughts would interfere.
“The thing that made me not love [work] was other people’s opinions,” she said, because the implication is “that you don’t love your babies enough.”
Marshall further explained; “I went back to a work place with a lot of young, single people, a lot of men, a lot of people I couldn’t connect with.
“The feedback I got was ‘Oh my God you’re still fun.’ Or, ‘You’re still you’.
“That is also insulting because I don’t push a baby out of my fanny and then I become this old, dowdy thing.”
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Motherhood changing the way others saw her was something the new mum hadn’t expected. She also didn’t expect people would directly comment about it.
Marshall used the example of a comment on one of her Instagram posts to explain how she felt about it:
“Someone said to me on Instagram the other day, ‘Your tits are always out. You just do it for attention’,” Marshall told her co-host.
It was of course a statement the new mum found deeply offensive, explaining the perfectly acceptable and brilliant reason for it:
“No. I do it to celebrate these glorious breasts because they’re only going to be here for another couple of months.
“They’re never going to look better than now. So of course, I would go topless everywhere if it was legal.”
Szeps, who has 16-month-old twins Stella and Cooper with husband, Josh, shared that his return-to-work when his twins were 10-months-old was also difficult.
“Transitioning back was horrifying,” he said. “I was so excited to get out of the house and leave the kids for a second. And shower every day.”
But Szeps said something happened at work that made him “cry in the bathroom for two hours.”