A red suit and a VIP guest list: All the details from Penny Wong’s secret wedding.

Penny Wong is a dedicated politician, devoted mother of two... and now she's the wife of Sophie Allouache, too.

The Foreign Minister, aged 55, officially tied the knot with her long-term partner in a private ceremony in her home state of South Australia on March 16, 2024.

The pair, who have been together since 2006, married at the Bird in Hand Winery in Adelaide Hills on Saturday and announced the news in a joint statement. "We are delighted that so many of our family and friends could share this special day with us," they wrote in an Instagram post on Sunday morning.

Penny Wong and Sophie Allouache on their wedding day. Image: Instagram @senatorpennywong.


It's reported, per The Guardianthat Penny and Sophie's daughters — Alexandra, 11, and eight-year-old Hannah — were flower girls at the wedding.

As for the guest list, Prime Minister Anthony Albanese was said to be in attendance, along with other senior ministers.

In 2022, Penny became the first woman in Australia to be appointed the Leader of the Opposition in the Senate but the achievement follows behind a long list of other triumphs. The politician is also the first Asian-born person to hold an Australian cabinet position, the first openly gay female parliamentarian, the first Foreign Minister to be born overseas — and she recently made history again, as the country's longest-serving female cabinet minister.

She moved to Australia from Malaysia with her family at eight years old and remembers just how "hard" her first day of school was in a new country.

"I was probably the first Asian a lot of those kids had ever seen, and I remember things being said as we walked in to go to enrol," she told SBS.

"That was the first time I actually realised race was a factor."

Born in Malaysia, Penny moved to South Australia with her brother, Toby, and her Australian mother in 1976, following her parents' divorce. Growing up in Adelaide, the siblings endured bullying in school due to their race. 


"The area we moved into was not a hub of multiculturalism," Wong told the University of South Australia.

Image: First Day: Penny Wong's Journey/SBS. 

Throughout her life, Penny's biggest influence was her father’s mother, who lost family members in the Second World War. "The influence she had on me was not what she said, but the life she lived. Her determination to survive taught me two things: remember how lucky you are, and remember the obligation you have. If you are given an opportunity, do something with it."

And so she did.

Penny won a scholarship to the elite Scotch College and decided to pursue a career in medicine. However, she later discovered she had a fear of blood while volunteering at a hospital in Brazil and decided to pivot her studies.


She later graduated in law and arts from the University of Adelaide.

After graduating, Wong worked for a union, before taking up a role as a ministerial adviser in the NSW Labor Government.

Listen to Mamamia's interview with Penny Wong on the 'I Don't Know How She Does It' podcast. Post continues below.

Penny Wong's political career.

Penny's experience of marginalisation growing up motivated her to get into politics. "I think wanting to be in parliament, in many ways, is connected to arriving here," she told SBS. "That sense of knowing what it's like to be marginalised and what it's like to be excluded probably instilled in me a very strong sense of wanting to change that."

In 2001, Penny was elected as a South Australian Senator on the day of her brother's 30th birthday.

Ten days later, he took his own life.

The 55-year-old later touched on her brother's death during her maiden speech saying, "Your life and death ensure that I shall never forget what it is like for those who are truly marginalised".

The following year, Penny came out as a lesbian shortly after she assumed her seat. As the first openly gay member of parliament, she's continuously faced homophobia and misogyny throughout her career. 


"I’ve been cat-called, I’ve been called a quota girl," Penny told the Star Observer. "There’s no doubt that homophobia is still a problem across our community, and the remnants of that are reflected in our parliament also. I think most politicians — particularly women — will be able to tell you we get some pretty nasty comments on social media. Unfortunately for me, those comments will sometimes have an ugly homophobic undertone."

In 2003, Penny was elected to the Shadow Ministry. 

When Labor won government in 2007, she became the Minister for Climate Change and Water. After the 2010 Federal election, she was appointed as Minister for Finance and Deregulation. In 2013, she was appointed Leader of the Government in the Senate and later Leader of the Opposition in the Senate, becoming the first woman to hold both roles. 


In 2017, Penny was a vocal supporter for the legalisation of same-sex marriage and famously teared up when news broke that Australia reached a 'yes' majority. 


For Penny, the news meant her two children, who she shares with her wife Sophie Allouache, could grow up in the "sort of country" she wants for them.

"As much as I love Sophie, [this] has never been just about our relationship, it has actually been about the sort of country we want," she told 9News at the time. 

"And I often think about my daughters, beautiful daughters, Alexandra and Hannah and the sort of country I want for them. What Australia did yesterday was voted for that nation and for that, I am eternally grateful."

In May 2022, Wong took the next step in her political career when she was sworn in as our foreign minister, alongside the prime minister and three other ministers.


Penny Wong's family life.

Outside of politics, Penny is busy raising two daughters with her wife, Sophie, in Adelaide. Sophie works at South Australia's Health & Department of Human Services, with an expertise in early childhood health and mental health issues, including eating disorders.

The couple welcomed their first daughter, Alexandra, in 2011 after she was conceived through IVF using a sperm donor. "She's wonderful, just wonderful," Penny told News Limited at the time. "Sophie and I are delighted beyond words."

Penny and Sophie later welcomed their second daughter, Hannah, in 2015 with the help of the same sperm donor. "Sophie and I are delighted to announce the arrival of Hannah, a sister to Alexandra," Penny wrote on Twitter at the time. "Everyone is doing well."


Speaking to Mamamia in 2016, Penny said she prioritises time with her kids when she's not in Canberra. "I try and structure my trips so I get home during the week on non-sitting weeks and I try to carve time out [when] I'm there for the kids," she said. 

"So I try and be really clear about what I need to do when I'm in Adelaide."

This article was originally published on May 24, 2022 and has since been updated with new information.

Feature Image: Getty/SBS/Mamamia.

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