Think very carefully about the last time that you had sex. Okay not so carefully that you can no longer concentrate on what you are reading but just back to the last time you got jiggy with it. If you are happily loved up in a relationship and getting er, intimate with your partner on a daily, weekly or monthly basis you are going to have to take off your smug smile and cast your mind back a bit. If you don’t have a partner at the moment  you may relate to the way Sam de Brito is feeling.

He recently wrote about his dry spell in his column which appears in the SMH:

Can you relate? What has been your longest dry spell? Was it self inflicted or a matter of circumstance?