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Men and women are very different creatures when it comes to sex. This isn’t surprising, as men and women are very different creatures when it comes to pretty much everything.
Though there are exceptions to every rule, most men need very little warming up to get jiggy jiggy. They’re a bit like my whizz bang coffee machine – constantly on standby, with their light flashing hopefully, and with only one quick press… whooosh! The cup is filled.
Women, on the other hand, are more like a kettle – the old fashion kind that sits on a stove. You have to light the fire, put it on to boil, and wait for ages while it heats up. And you can’t let that flame die down for a second, or the result will be most unsatisfactorily lukewarm.
Because of the differences between men and women, our needs when it comes to foreplay are different too. And whilst we women have perfectly reasonable expectations of what constitutes foreplay, men can be WAY out of synch….
What Men Consider Foreplay:
His partner removing her clothes (whether to get into bed, hop into the shower, or put cream on a painful rash)
A nude woman on TV
A sex scene on TV
Nothing on TV
Getting into bed
Lying in bed
Waking up in bed
Giving his partner that ‘special look’
Pinching his partner’s bum
Saying ‘Hey hon, wanna do the wild thing?’
Breathing.
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What Women Consider Foreplay:
Receiving flowers
Receiving chocolates
Receiving a full body massage
Her partner doing the dishes
Her partner doing the laundry
Her partner doing whatever she wants
Being told that she is gorgeous
Being told that she is sexy
Being told that the kids are asleep and that her partner will get them up in the morning
Watching a film of Simon Baker (okay, so maybe that one is just me).
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I thought that a clean kitchen was the best possible foreplay. But it turns out, I may just well be wrong.
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*2009 Project Everest Study. Data on file.
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Top Comments
what a joke, laundry and dishes. I hate to tell you that isn't foreplay, thats called a woman who basically wants to be paid for sex. This is obviously written by a woman who enjoys sex little. her husband probably pays for it on the side because it is easier to get.
Do you really, genuinely think that people's sexuality follows such predictable rules? That all men will be up for it at a moment's notice, and women require gifts and flattery to want sex?
This is sexist to the point of total absurdity.