Let me introduce you to the ‘situationship’.
The situationship is basically when you’re dating someone without any of the labels or commitment.
Urban Dictionary defines it as: “A relationship that has no label on it… like a friendship but more than a friendship but not quite a relationship.”
Confused? Imagine being in one.
The term has been around for a while – Cosmopolitan even did an explainer on it in May last year – but it’s recently made headlines once again, after a woman detailed her own experiences with the situationship on a blog.
Writing on xoNecole, Raeven Bostic said she’s been in a situationship for three years, and it’s been working out just fine for her so far.
“A situationship is basically you and another person doing couple things without being an official couple,” she explained.
“It’s a concept that is celebrated amongst men and hated amongst women. I used to hate it too… Until I got in one.”
Raeven said her situationship started when she reached out to an old friend from university on Twitter.
The two started chatting as friends, before eventually admitting they’d developed feelings for each other.
Because of the distance between them, they “agreed to let whatever happens happen”, meaning they decided not to put any labels on their relationship, even though they had definitely moved beyond the point of being just friends.
“Now I know, three years is a long *ss time to be emotionally invested in someone without the promise of a relationship,” continued Raeven.