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Can I tell you something that feels a bit embarrassing to admit?

I run an Instagram page all about getting the most out of your wardrobe and helping women find their style after 40.

And for the last few months, I have been standing in front of my built-in wardrobe every single morning, completely unable to find anything.

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Not because I don't have clothes. I have plenty of clothes. It was that nothing had a home, nothing was visible, and everything I actually loved was buried under everything I was just... keeping. Sound familiar?

My wardrobe isn't full of clothes I never wear, and it's definitely not a perfectly curated one-rack capsule either. I love clothes, I love getting dressed, and I edit regularly. But despite all of that, mine simply wasn't set up to function.

My knitwear was hanging on hangers, squished together, which meant I had to pull half the wardrobe out to find the piece I wanted. Unsurprisingly, there were pieces I hadn't worn in a little while, out of sight, out of mind.

My denim came off the hanger creased every single time. And my bags, some of my absolute favourite pieces, were pushed to the back where I couldn't see them, so I'd stopped reaching for them entirely.

Before: Everything in, nothing visible, same five things on rotation every morning. Image: Supplied.

Every morning I'd open the wardrobe, feel immediately overwhelmed, and reach for the same things hanging at the front. Everything else may as well not have existed.

The fix wasn't a dramatic overhaul. It wasn't a new wardrobe or a professional organiser or getting rid of half my clothes. It was one shelving unit. Let me explain.

How to organise your wardrobe like a fashion writer.

• Total time: a few hours on a weekend afternoon.

• Total cost: under $100 for the shelving.

• Outcome: I haven't had a nothing-to-wear morning since.

Step 1: Take everything out.

All of it. I know it feels counterintuitive to make a bigger mess before you make order, but you cannot reorganise around clutter.

Clear the whole wardrobe out onto your bed, a chair, the floor — wherever you have space. This is also the moment you actually see what you own, probably for the first time in a while. Hopefully, this shouldn't take longer than 20-30 minutes.

Step 2: Add in the shelving before you put anything back.

I picked up the KALLAX Shelving Unit from IKEA for $89. Nothing fancy, just a simple addition that gave me dedicated space for folded pieces. I added it before putting a single thing back in. Get the structure right first, then fill it.

Step 3: Assign everything a home.

This is the step most people skip, and it's the most important one. Every category of clothing needs a designated place before you start putting things away:

• Knitwear: folded on shelves, never hanging

• Denim: folded and stacked so you can see every pair

• Bags: on display on a shelf, not buried or stacked

• Hanging pieces: I like to organise by category (eg. shirts, dresses, tees etc.)

Now, you've got a mix of open shelving for things you reach for daily, and a couple of baskets for smaller items that don't stack well.

If you can see it, you'll wear it. If it's hidden, it doesn't exist.

After: Now we're talking! I was really thrilled with the result. Image: Supplied.

Step 4: Do the edit last, not first.

Most wardrobe advice tells you to edit before you organise. I'd argue the opposite.

Once everything is visible and has a home, the pieces that don't belong become completely obvious — you don't have to agonise over them. Ask one question about anything you're unsure about: have I worn this in the last 12 months?

If the answer is no, it goes. Not because it's a bad piece, but because it's not living in your life right now, and keeping it is just adding noise to every morning.

What I've come to realise about getting dressed after 40 is this: our bodies have changed. Our lives have changed. Our taste has changed — often significantly. And yet most of us are still storing clothes from three, five, 10 years ago; from a version of ourselves that doesn't quite exist anymore.

Keeping those pieces isn't optimistic. It's just noise. And that noise is what makes getting dressed feel hard every single morning.

When I removed the pieces that belonged to an older version of me and gave everything that remained a proper home, something shifted. Getting dressed stopped feeling like a problem to solve and started feeling like the easy part of my morning.

I've had a hard time saying no to these pieces, but it's time to let them go. Image: Supplied.

Step 5: Deal with the edit pile the same day.

Don't leave a bag of discards sitting in your bedroom for three weeks — that's how things creep back in. I split mine three ways:

Anything with resale value should be listed on Depop. Good condition pieces that I don't think will sell on Depop are donated to local Op Shop. And anything worn out is binned responsibly.

Same day. Done.

Step 6: The final check.

Stand in front of your wardrobe and open it. Can you see everything? Can you reach everything without pulling other things out? Does every piece have a place?

If yes — you're done. If not, something still doesn't have a home and that's the thing to fix before you close the door.

And remember, keep only what works for who you are right now, in this body, in this life.

Your wardrobe doesn't need to be beautiful. It doesn't need to be a walk-in. It just needs to work.

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This post was originally published on Julia's Honest Style Notes Substack and was republished here with full permission. Subscribe to her Substack, or follow @thejuliastyleedit on Instagram for more style content from Julia.

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