“Mum, can I go up the street and play with so-and-so before dinner?” is a question many parents of primary age kids might be familiar with.
But for Molly Lucas, 10, she can’t just ‘pop over’ for a play.
“Hang on Molly, let’s see your sugar.”
“Oh no you’re trending.”
“When was the last time you had sugar?”
“Ok, let’s have something to eat first.”
“Hold on two seconds, let me make sure you’ve got a kit.
‘You know what, you can go in 10 minutes. I want to make sure your sugar turns around.”
Since being diagnosed with Type 1 diabetes, Molly’s life has been stripped of all spontaneity.
Her mum Kirsty tells Mamamia, it’s like living with a newborn again.
“It’s that constant forethought about what could happen in that next 10 minutes. It’s like having a baby and not being able to leave the house without having the formula, the sterilised water, nappies, wipes, spare clothes….”
It also means less invites to sleepovers and parties, because other kid’s parents are too scared of the responsibility of Molly.
Of course, to a 10-year-old that’s heartbreaking.
Here is a little clip of Molly and her mum, which they created for Diabetes NSW & ACT. Post continues after video.
“I hate diabetes, diabetes has ruined my life,” is a sentence Kirsty has heard her daughter sob more than once, since her diagnosis two years ago.
Molly has an insulin pump, it’s something her parents were able to get through health insurance to spare her from pin pricks every time she needs her glucose checked.
However, every day she has to change the pump site on her body. It involves a metal needle – and Molly says it’s even worse than the pin pricks.
“I don’t want to do this – I don’t want to do this,” Molly cries every time. “But you’ve got to hurt them to keep them alive,” Kirsty tells Mamamia through tears.
It’s heartbreaking and exhausting for Kirsty. She can’t leave the house for instance, without putting Molly’s daily carbs on a spreadsheet for the school. The whole family’s life revolves around Molly’s diabetes.