Before you know it, your baby’s growing up – and there comes a point when you need to talk about body changes, relationships and sex. While we can’t guarantee it’ll be blush-free, here are some pointers to make it easier…

By Fiona Gibson

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‘Do I really have to do this?’

Yes - because misinformation can fly around the playground, Chinese-whispers style.

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‘How are babies made, Mummy?’

The earlier you start to talk about the basics, the better.

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‘I know all that already…’ 

Talking sex and relationships can be tricky.

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Girl talk

It’s important to talk to your daughter about periods before she starts (this usually happens at around age 11-13, but can be as young as eight).

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Love and respect

While it’s vital that your child knows about contraception and sexual health, it’s just as important to talk about the emotional side of relat

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‘Won’t they learn all this at school?’

Not necessarily.

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Spot the difference…

When you’re talking about body changes, don’t forget that greasy hair and spotty skin affect boys just as much girls.

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Team work

It makes sense for you to address certain issues with your daughter, and for your partner to discuss particularly 'boysy' areas with your son.

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From soaps to real life  

Remember that none of this needs to take the form of one toe-curling ‘Big Talk.’ Frequent, casual chats help to create a rel

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When they won’t talk…

It needn’t always be you who talks to your child.

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Happy, safe and well informed

By chatting about these issues, you’re not only informing your child but showing them that sex and relationships are a normal part of l