“Look at that car. I like it. I mean, the colour could be a bit brighter. I wonder how much it costs. I wonder if I’ll ever be able to afford a car. How much money do I have in my bank account now? When is pay day? Oh look, that dog is cute…”
Welcome to the mind of an over-thinker, otherwise known as someone who has too many tabs open in their brain at all times. There’s no ‘switch off’ button in there – it’s a constant cycle of thoughts. (Note the plural).
Sure, as humans we all have a brain, and we all use them – some more than others. But there are specific types of people who use their brain a lot. Too much. All the time. As one of these people – an over-thinker – it can be exhausting just being in your own head. So. Many. Thoughts.
Here are six things only over-thinkers will understand.
1. RSVP-ing ‘no’ is stressful.
You can’t just reply to an event if you’re not going to be able to make it. You can’t just hit the ‘not attending’ button and go on your merry way.
If you can’t attend an event (even if it’s a friend of your cousin’s aunt), you worry. You wonder if the host is going to hate you, if you’re letting them down, if you should re-arrange your schedule so you can squeeze three events in to one night – which you usually try to do only to barely be present at any.
After the night, you’ll probably think about how you could’ve managed that better. (Post continues after gallery.)
2. We need replies to all our messages.
Seriously, if we don’t get a reply within minutes of texting you, all the scenarios run through our head.
Are you dead?
Did we do something wrong to make you mad?
Did the text send?
Is my phone working?
Maybe I sent it to the wrong number. *checks sent message* No I sent it to them, why haven’t they replied?
What have I done wrong?
3. We think there’s a hidden meaning in everything.
Your barista was less friendly than usual… are you not on good terms anymore? Maybe something has happened in his/her life. You wonder what might’ve happened. Should you have asked them?