Prince Charles ‘ former butler is getting served on Twitter right now. See, since stepping away from the Palace, Grant Harrold has fashioned himself into “Britain’s etiquette expert”, which seems to involve telling people you’ve never met how to behave. (Seems rude, but hey, I’m no expert.)

Among the advice ‘The Royal Butler’ has bestowed upon the uncouth masses via social media is:

But it’s his latest tip that has people tossing out their manners:

Gentlemen, let’s remember that a Lady never looks at the bill. pic.twitter.com/pDiD4u1t9r

— The Royal Butler (@TheRoyalButler) January 7, 2019

“Gentlemen, let’s remember that a Lady never looks at the bill.”

Oh, Grant.

We have so many questions: What if she’s not “a Lady”?; What if she’s the waitress?; Can her partner just read the amount out loud?; What about gay couples? Do they eat free?; Are you a time-traveller? If so, welcome to 2019 – it’s fun here in the future.

(Story time: I went to a restaurant in the UK where I was given a menu without prices. Because apparently only my boyfriend needs that information. I wanted to flip the table, but our entrees had already been served and I wasn’t sure whether they were expensive or not…)

The many, many flaws in Grant’s quaint nugget of wisdom are being deftly dissected in the comments section.

me and my wife are forever cursed to pay blindly

— liz (@sapphroditte) January 9, 2019

Then she checks their joint account online.

— Sheena (@MissVDub) January 7, 2019

that’s fine, I always pay with the money I took from her purse earlier.

— nerdy Architect (@Owens_Juninho) January 9, 2019

what bill? pic.twitter.com/57nIoMLc95

— Nicole ☀️At Sunrise (@alamanecer) January 9, 2019

Several followers offered helpful advice for edits, including:

A kind suggestion to modernize this to “a guest never look at the bill”.

— Actually a Bot. But with AI (@tipitweet) January 7, 2019

Just a thought, Mr Harrold. XOXO