Men on Reddit have shared the moment they knew their marriage was over. Their stories range from the ludicrous (after she staged a robbery) to the utterly heartbreaking.

The revelations started a day ago when a brave man asked: “Divorced men of Reddit: what moment with your former wife made me think ‘Yup, I’m asking this girl to divorce me.’?”

Since then there have been more than 16,000 comments from men sharing their experiences and commiserating on, what was surely, one of the hardest moments in their lives.

There’s a lot of talk about cheating

There’s strange deceitfulness

Disagreements over parenting

Stories of ungratefulness