Apparently a man still can’t cry without the whole world ripping in to him.

Breaking news: A male human has feelings.

Last night, a man on TV cried his eyes out. In front of two other men.

Andy from The Block (no relation to Jenny) couldn’t hold back the flow of tears brimming in his eyeballs and he wept. More accurately, he sobbed like a distraught person on the brink of a breakdown.

And the open display of emotion completely freaked the hell out of the two grown men next to him.

It was a verbal spray from foreman Keith and Dan (who for some inexplicable reason has ‘Foredan’ embroidered onto his jacket) about the constant mess of the renovating virgin’s apartment that caused the waterworks.

But boy did they backtrack after seeing how upset Andy was. The tears triggered an avalanche of apologies. “Sorry mate, we’re not trying to upset ya.” “You’re right, c’mon buddy.” “We’ll try and help ya whenever we can.” “Chin up, mate.” “Sorry, buddy. Chin up.” “We don’t want any more tears.”

At that moment, they would have pretty much given him the shirts off their backs if it would have turned off all the emotions.

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Awkward man-pat… Image via 9jumpin.

Because there is nothing more uncomfortable than a grown man crying, apparently.

Of course, the haters came out of the woodwork, jumping on all social media platforms to ensure everyone knew Andy was soft.

the block cried

the block cried

the block cried

(It should also be noted that NRL player Johnathon Thurston struggled to hold back tears as he accepted his fourth Dally M Player of the Year medal last night. He cried after being handed some metal on a ribbon necklace but no one’s telling him to eat a spoonful of concrete.)

But, there were also just as many people sympathising with Andy.

the block cried

the block cried

the block cried

For me, these are the take-home messages from last night’s public blubber:

Renovations are pretty much the most stressful thing you can do.

Especially when you’re being filmed 24/7, you’re renovating an entire room every single week and being harshly judged for it and you’ve never renovated before. It’s easy to see how the sleep deprivation, the pressure and the never-ending list of things to do and things that can go wrong could be completely overwhelming and get even the most chipper person down.

There is something extra hard about renovating with a partner – it’s one of those make or break moments in a relationship. Whitney previously said on Instagram: “Being able to get through the block is the biggest challenge in our relationship and we are working great together as a team!”

If you don’t believe that, just try painting a house with your beloved.

Sometimes, all you can do is cry.

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Men break down too.

Real men cry. And, when they do, people can find it disconcerting.

But it’s lovely and natural and sometimes necessary. And releasing all that pent up worry, frustration, anger or sadness feels damn good. Even if it is in public.

Andy wasn’t ashamed of his moment of perceived weakness, telling his partner, Whitney: “I kind of broke down again in front of Dan and Keith. But that was alright, it needed to happen.”

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Let it out, Andy. Image via 9jumpin.

What a man.

Crying often gets results.

People are often accused of putting on the crocodile tears to elicit sympathy or get a desired result because everyone knows that crying can be damn effective.

When I went to Sydney airport on my way home from a ten-month overseas jaunt, I was told my ticket would only allow me on an ‘international’ flight back to Melbourne, not one of the 20-something domestic flights going that day, and that I would have to come back tomorrow.

I protested and then, out of tiredness, homesickness and sheer exasperation, I cried. Before I knew it, I was on the next flight home. (Thanks, Qantas.)

After Andy’s mini-breakdown last night, Keith and Dan went from berating him to draw up a colour-coded schedule to keeping him on track.

Because there is nothing more uncomfortable than a grown man crying, apparently.

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