Of the many common children’s habits that irk adults, interrupting can sometimes be the most frustrating.
That’s why mum Jessica Martin-Weber, who’d had more than enough of her six daughters (that’s right, six!) interrupting her, wanted to find a solution.
The US woman, who blogs with her husband Jeremy on their site Beyond Moi, said after trying and failing a few other methods she finally found one that works.
Jessica explained in a recent Facebook post that if one of her children wishes to speak to her while she's talking to someone else, they "gently" lay their hand on their arm, to which the parent will respond by touching her hand and then addressing her daughter once she's finished the other conversation.
As the mum explains, this wasn't the first method the family tried.
"I like to think I'm a chill parent but I have plenty of moments when that is not the case," she wrote.
"One such behaviour that requires deep breathing exercises on my part is interrupting. Particularly frequent and persistent interrupting. Which can happen easily with young children and in a large family.
"We tried teaching "excuse me please" or just "excuse me" but they just repeated that louder and louder too. Cute at first but "excuse me mummy" 30 times isn't much better than "mummy" 30 times."
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Jessica describes her solution like this: "In order to help with this and respect our personal boundaries and limits, we have taught our children to demonstrate when they have something to share by gently laying a hand on our arm if we are speaking or listening to someone else at that moment," she wrote.
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I have to re-think my ideas of pinging rubber bands.
Such good advice! This is a big issue in our house and it's hard to stay chill....we will definitely be giving this a go.