In 2017, Australia watched Sophie Monk search for love on The Bachelorette. Now she's found 'the one'.

It’s been two years since Australia watched Sophie Monk on her 2017 season of The Bachelorette.

The nation had high hopes for the loveable, self-described bogan from the Gold Coast we first met as a part of the girl group Bardot on Popstars way back in 2000.

Aussies loved watching the Hollywood actress search for love on national TV. The 39-year-old’s season gave us so many golden moments, from the great ‘pissing in the pot plant debacle’ to seeing runner up Jarrod Woodgate struggle to walk through sand after being told he didn’t have Monk’s heart.

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But when Monk and her series winner Stu Laundy announced their breakup in January 2018, less than four months after The Bachelorette finale aired, we couldn’t help but feel disappointed after being so invested in her reality TV dating journey.

Despite things not working out the way she thought they would, Monk says she knows she’s found “the one” in her current partner, Joshua Gross.

“I know this is the one. If he’s out, I give up, I really do,” the Love Island Australia host said in an exclusive interview with Stellar on Sunday.

“He’s everything I want in a person and more… I don’t think you could invent a better person for me. I’ve gone for something completely opposite to what I’ve ever gone for.

“He’s a man; a grown up. He’s really sweet without being annoying, and he’s calm and makes me feel safe.”


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Gross, 35, a neurosurgical robotics executive, has relocated from America to move into Monk’s Gold Coast home. Monk says she doesn’t think a proposal is too far off, especially considering she “keeps asking him to ask me”.

She also talked about feeling like she’d let the entire country down by not being able to make things work with Laundy.

“I felt an obligation because everyone was so empathetic to me and wanted a happy ending… Even Rebel Wilson said to me, ‘Please tell me you’re in love.’ Yes, it was disappointing, but I don’t regret doing the show because my intentions were genuine, and if that hadn’t happened with Stu I’d have never met Josh.”

Monk and Gross met just over a year ago after sitting next to each other on a flight to Australia from the US.

In August, 2018, Monk told Kyle and Jackie O on their radio show about the coincidental moment.

“I was sitting there for a while and we’d been chatting, and I went, ‘Hey, um, are you single?’ And he went, ‘Yeah.’ I went, ‘I don’t ever get to meet people in normal scenarios and, um, can I kiss you?’… I thought, ‘Oh god I’ve got a 10-hour flight with this guy, if he says no I’m in trouble,’” Monk told the radio presenters at the time.

“He was so charming and funny and he had no idea what I did. When I say it out loud it doesn’t really make sense … but it does to me.”


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Monk’s love life was tabloid fodder long before appearing on The Bachelorette. She’s been engaged twice, first to Good Charlotte guitarist Benji Madden, then businessman Jesse Esberg. Monk has also been linked to actors Jason Statham, Kevin Connolly and Sam Worthington, TV host Ryan Seacrest and plastic surgeon John Diaz.

In 2018, Monk told Mamamia’s No Filter podcast she’d always been impulsive in previous relationships, and being patient was something she had to learn.

“I move quickly… I had to learn to sit back a bit and be patient, don’t be so impulsive. If I could tell any woman anything, do not have sex on the first night. Wait as long as you can because sex complicates things,” she told Mia Freedman.

You can listen to Sophie Monk’s interview with No Filter below. Post continues after audio.

The biggest lesson Monk said she’s learnt about love and being single is the importance of not looking for a relationship just to “fill a void”.

“You’ve really got to care about yourself to care about someone else, and I didn’t realise that. If you don’t care about yourself, you attract the wrong person, or you’ll search for the wrong thing to fill a void.”

“I was always in relationships, but when I became comfortable on my own, that’s when it happened.”

You can read Sophie Monk’s full interview with Stellar here.

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