“I’d want someone to know that it’s me,” Sophie Monk told the panel on The Project the night after her role of Bachelorette was confirmed last month.
Which makes sense, really. You’d want the men signing up to vie for your affections on national television’s hearts to be in it, wouldn’t you?
Apparently, that’s not usually how it works though.
When former pop star approached Channel 10 with her heart in her hands and asked to be the Bachelorette, they basically threw the rule book out the window to get her on board.

For starters, the date of the announcement was brought forward to keep rumours under wraps.
The decision also meant that for the first time in the show's history would-be suitors knew exactly who they were applying for. (Which, just quietly, could either end up super romantic or... a tad creepy? No?)
It also meant the network are now in charge of Monk's public profile and, according to the Daily Telegraph, recently blocked her from doing a photo shoot with her family on the Gold Coast.
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It's a shame it wasn't Nikki. I think everyone would have been happy with that choice. I don't know why but I just can't personally warm to Sophie monk and don't feel any inclination to watch knowing she is the new bachelorette.
See, I'm the opposite - I like Monk and think she's far more interesting than watching a runner up from the Bachelor (Laurina excluded: I would tune in for her!).
In the US season they often know who they are applying to meet. The girls on the latest season almost ALL said to Nick "I only applied because it was you" - as did many of the guys on Kaitlyn's season.
Also, in Sophie's case they need to know it's her, as she is older than most Bachelorettes. Imagine if all the guys applying were 23-25 (as they often are)! It'd be ridiculous, and just wouldn't work. She needs guys around her age and older. It's quite a different demographic.
Also, thank GOD it wasn't Nikki. She seems like a lovely girl, but she was boring as hell tv. It'd be Richie 2.0.