It seems Facebook may be very bad news for your relationship.

The social networking site has been named as a main factor in a large number of divorce proceedings in both the US and UK. According to The Australian “Facebook pages were increasingly being cited in evidence as ‘unreasonable behaviour’, including flirtatious messages or e-mails and chats of a suggestive or sexual nature.”

Mamamia reader Sally* knows this all too well. And she needs your advice:

Sally* writes