For two years now my sister’s life has been plagued with anorexia nervosa.
Diagnosed at 17, I remember being in the carpark of a medical practice after her first appointment and, despite her obvious decline, we stood in some sort of numb shock.
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She explained that she required a physical assessment to decide whether she would need hospitalisation and tube feeding. I could not fathom the idea.
The stubborn streak in me would not fathom the idea. I remember thinking that surely there was something I could say; that if I found the perfect sum of words, I could fix it.
I remember wondering whether there was some sort of plan we could devise together to avoid what seemed, at the time, outrageous and unnecessary for the 17-year-old who was incredibly smart, witty, bright and kind.
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Interrupting the beautiful people & baby spam to bring you a PERSONAL POST ON THE BLOG // “Just as eating disorders drain you of your common sense and own beliefs they single handedly bring out every ounce of love within your being. Not just for your sister who is drastically unwell, but for everybody in your life. You begin to notice love more and to appreciate it more. You seek it out and you aim to spread it like wild fire. Because, for all the ups and downs, supporting your loved one through an eating disorder teaches you the true meaning of unconditional love. After time it begins to dull the question: “what can I do to make her better” and instead illuminates “how can I love better?” Day after day, you learn to erase what happened yesterday and you create the energy to start again today. Unconditional love, I have learnt, is not the cure but it is certainly the way through.” // Read more about a cause so very dear to my heart via my blog. And if you would like to join us at this year’s city to bay, come walk or run to raise awareness for this insidious disease. ????