Sheryl Sandberg was deep in grief after her husband’s death when she received a letter that seemed to confirm her worst fears.
Speaking to close friend Katie Couric about her new book, ‘Option B’, Sandberg described the moment she received the unnerving letter.
It was just a few weeks after ‘Lean In’ author’s husband, Dave Goldberg, had died suddenly of a cardiac arrhythmia after collapsing at a hotel gym while on holiday in Mexico in May 2015.
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“A lot of people kept saying ‘it gets better’, but it didn’t feel like it would ever get better,” the mum-of-two told Couric during an interview for her podcast.
“I felt like there’s a void closing in on me.”
Sandberg described the “overwhelming” grief that made her feel as if she wasn’t going to be able to live through another minute, let alone a day or a week.
Feeling like the pain might never subside, she opened a letter from a woman who shared a devastating message.
It read, “I wish I had something to say to you, but I don’t – because it’s been years and it really doesn’t get much easier. And a friend of mine lost her husband 10 years ago and it doesn’t get easier.”
Sheryl said that she was "not strong enough to read that letter".
Devastated and fearing that the woman's message might be true, Sandberg called Couric and friend, psychologist Adam Grant.