Just because you love someone, doesn’t mean you love their taste in television shows.
Sharing a password for video-on-demand sites is fast becoming a modern relationship milestone.
Sure, leaving a toothbrush at your significant other’s house is a pretty big step, but in 2015, if you really want to see into someone’s soul, try taking a peak at their Netflix account.
Opening up the embarrassing can of worms that is your personal viewing preferences to another human being is undeniably a big step.
It’s a gesture of trust, your way of telling the world that you believe wholeheartedly this person will not leave you, in spite of your affection for re-watching episodes of Buffy The Vampire Slayer.
On a practical level, it also proves you’ll be spending more time together than apart and that perhaps you’re ready to let them pick the movie. At least on some nights.
Also, if your partner is a big judgemental jerk, like this guy, you’ll soon find out. Then you can dump him before you commit to sharing a VPN to access American Netflix.
According to a recent survey of video-on-demand users in the US, almost half of 18 to 29-year-olds questioned said they share at least one account with someone outside of their home.
It’s a money-saver and a relationship make-or-breaker to be sure, but what happens if you split up?
An article published in Slate looked into these burning questions, asking: how soon after breaking up can you change your password. Or, alternatively, when do you give up rights to your ex’s account?
Even when a relationship has ended on good terms, it can still be a minefield.
Jacob, 32, told Slate that he gets a “quiet, unexpected familiarity” every time he logs on and has to choose between his name or his ex-girlfriend’s.