As told to Shannen Findlay.

For as long as I can remember, I've felt a desire to be a mum deep in my bones.

As a parent of four babies — eight-year-old Winslow, seven-year-old Pascal, five-year-old Daphne and five-month-old Memphis — I'm constantly asked what it's actually like.

Let me spoil it for you and tell you it's a joy unlike any other... but that doesn't mean the tough parts don't swallow you some days.

I was lucky to find my person from a young age and we both had the same desire to be parents, so we didn't waste any time.

It's the ultimate privilege for me, but let me tell you it's a wild ride with one - let alone four!

So here I am, giving you the ultimate pros and cons list of being a mum of four. Strap in.

Pros

Cons

I'll be honest with you, I don't believe in "cons" necessarily when it comes to parenting my four babies. Everything in this life is a lesson. All that we go