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What is a 'post-baby body' meant to look like?

By definition, it’s a body that has delivered a baby, whether that be out of a vagina, through an incision or by whichever way was necessary to keep mum and child safe.

WATCH: Tiffiny Hall speaks about post-baby body expectations in the video below. Post continues after video.

It’s an incomprehensible achievement, but more often than not, post-baby bodies are presented to us as an 'after' photo, acceptable only once returned to their pre-baby state.

It’s for this reason we wanted to see real Aussie women shining a light on the reality of postpartum bodies. Because as we found out, a lot of surprising stuff happens to your body when you have a child.

For Laura Byrne, it was postpartum hair loss.

"Well, well, well. Turns out ROUND TWO of postpartum hair loss is a wild bit of gear," she shared last year, underneath a photo of herself sharing just how much hair had fallen out.

And that's just one example.

Keep scrolling to see more images and read stories from 26 women who were surprised by what happened to their bodies (including their brains) after having babies.

1. Alana, 31.

“My melasma pigmentation was so bad. The photo doesn’t do it justice.”

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2. Amy, 27.

"I developed gallstones after being pregnant and had to have my gall bladder removed when my son was three months old. Not only was the surgery complicated due to the inflammation, but I had to go in for a second surgery that same week due to a stone that was leftover and causing pain. They also had to manage my pain while keeping my breastfeeding in mind. It meant I couldn’t have any of the normal pain medications!"

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3. Nicole, 31.

"My mothers' group chat loves sending photos of our postpartum hair loss fringes to each other - the ones we don’t remember having cut, but frizz out like we’ve been electrocuted. I can actually style it into a nice, wispy curtain fringe these days. The little rat tails are fun, too!"

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4. Adele, 29.

"My abs now have separation anxiety. It's called diastasis recti and is the separation of the abdominal muscles. Yet another wonderful gift some people are blessed to receive after pregnancy. You can see the video on my Instagram of them caving in when I breathe out."

5. Amanda, 29.

"I had my clitoris tear in half while delivering my third child. One year later and it's still really uncomfortable to touch. I had no idea that could happen... I won't let my husband near it."

6. Caroline.

"I think one big thing which isn't physical is the feeling of losing a part of yourself. You gain so much after having children - unconditional love, pride in what you've accomplished, but you also lose a little. I have three children, each one has taken a little bit from me. You can’t quite put a finger on what it is that you've lost, but there's just an... absence."

7. Rita.

"I had quite bad vulvar varicosities (varicose veins on my vulva) in the last three months of my pregnancy. Not only was I in a lot of pain if I stood for more than an hour, but my vagina looked so awful, I cried on multiple occasions about it. Three hours after having my little man, it was amazing how quickly the blood vessels had shrunk. I can happily say I'm the only person I know who has looked at their vagina post-childbirth and thought how much better it looked than the weeks before!"

8. Beth, 30.

"I had a forceps delivery. I had a tear and my vagina was cut. Almost eight months later, I'm still seeing the physio regularly because sex is so painful! At my last visit, they handed me this dilator. Not only had I never used a sex toy before, I had no idea what this was or how to use it for a scar. Also, the one thing no one told me is that you might no longer have control over your flatulence. I remember the first time I went to an event with my work colleagues post-baby - I said to my husband, 'I can’t do this, it's not worth it if I can’t hold farts in'."

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9. Hannah, 33.

"After pains are a cruel joke. It's when your uterus decides it’s time to shrink back to some kind of normal size (whatever that is now). It’s like period pain, BUT WORSE! Every time I fed my baby, I felt contractions again. Haven’t we been through enough??"

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10. Alena, 31.

"This photo was taken when my baby was about four weeks old. I remember trying to smile, but feeling like a fraud for pretending to be happy when I wasn't. All the physical changes meant nothing to me compared to the deep mental hole I fell into for the first six weeks of motherhood. I remember thinking, 'why do so many people have children??!!' I cried all the time - when I ate, when I showered, when I tried to sleep. Looking back, I definitely think I was depressed. I had so much support from my husband and my mum and I think that's what got me through. My daughter is now four months old and I'm completely in love with being a mother. Women are told they should have this instant feeling of love and contentment when the baby is born, but sometimes, it takes time to come to terms with your new life."

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11. Marina.

"Mainly, I was surprised by how my love-hate relationship with my body intensified. I'm in awe and appreciate it for what it made, but my strange hair, weak abs, and high-low hormones are a shock and hard to manage."

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12. Anna, 29.

"I was so scared in the lead-up to my birth based on everything you read. But the most surprising thing to happen postpartum? My body was fine. I didn't need all the things I had stocked up on, nothing scary or weird happened. My midwife even encouraged me to use a mirror to check it all out down there as I was so worried and big surprise - it looked the same! I feel like we are not supposed to say birth can be beautiful and that bodies can be fine after (and that sex is just as great) as it in some way means we don't respect those who [have] shared their traumatic experience."

13. Sarah, 39.

"Our bodies are pretty amazing and I felt like a total goddess after I gave birth to my two beautiful daughters. BUT WOW. Lots has changed to my body. I had a prolapse and when I first went for a run after birth, literally, my vagina walls started falling out. Fast forward fiv