Pamela Anderson and Adil Rami were together for 2 years. But she says he had a "double life".

When Pamela Anderson published a series of unverified emails to her website about one of her long-term relationships, it opened up a story that reads like a movie.

The emails were between her and Sidonie Biémont, the ex of French football star Adil Rami, who Anderson was in a relationship with.

On the website, Anderson claimed Rami had been “living a double life” throughout their two-year relationship. The emails, she said, were her proof.

Anderson had first reached out to Biémont, who lives in Paris, to get to know her but was upset to learn that Rami and Biémont had apparently kept seeing each other since their 2016 split.

“Then for almost one year and a half we continued to see each other as lovers, him being really discreet and telling me all would ‘end’ soon?

“Then early 2019 we stopped the ‘affair’ coz I think I’m worth more than being hidden and treated like that.”

According to Anderson, Biémont said Rami told her he and Anderson were just friends, that they’d never lived together and that he’d never met her children.

“I’m so sorry. I’ve been living with Adil for over two years,” Anderson replied. “I’ve never met a man like this. Living multiple lives. I’m in shock. I’m so sorry for you and your boys. I am leaving him. For good this time. It’s too mind boggling for me. I’ve tried to leave 10 times but he always finds me and begs me back.”



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Anderson wrote that Rami had been abusive, physically and emotionally, and isolated her from her friends.

She claimed he threw her around by her hair during a visit to Los Angeles and crushed both her hands.

On Instagram, Anderson confirmed she and Rami had split, saying the last two years of her life had been a lie.

“How is it possible to control 2 women’s hearts and minds like this. I’m sure there were others,” Anderson wrote, later insisting Rami “is the monster”.

She also linked to the National Domestic Violence Hotline.

Rami has denied leading a double life and said he would continue his commitment to a French domestic violence charity.

Anderson has had a turbulent love life.

The former Baywatch star has been married four times: to rocker Tommy Lee, the father of her two sons, as well as Kid Rock and Rick Salomon (who she tied the knot with twice).


Pamela Anderson and Tommy Lee.

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Anderson and Lee married on February 19, 1995 – just four days after their first date. Few people knew about the wedding – Anderson's own mother learned about the wedding in People magazine.

Just months into their marriage, their now-infamous sex tape ended up on the internet after a disgruntled electrician stole their safe and handed it on to producers.

In June 1996, the couple's first son Brandon was born – but their very public relationship was taking its toll.

"Not being able to do anything... about [the tape] was adding so much frustration and stress to our relationship. It was just consuming us," Lee explained to 20/20 in 2004.

Anderson filed for divorce in November 1996, but they soon got back together.

Their second son Dylan was born in December 1997.

Their relationship further deteriorated, and in February 1998 the couple had a physical confrontation – Lee was throwing things around in the kitchen and yelling. Anderson punched him in the jaw, and he kicked her.

Lee was arrested and pleaded guilty to felony spousal battery and, in May 1998, he was sentenced to six months in jail. The couple divorced after this.

But despite the divorce – and Anderson moving on with surfer Kelly Slater while Lee was in jail – their relationship remained on-again, off-again.


Then a decade after their divorce, Lee confirmed to Rolling Stone that they were giving their relationship try No. "801."

In 2010, they parted ways for good. Throughout the years the pair have had numerous public falling outs, but in 2015, Anderson explained their relationship to People by saying Lee was "the love of my life".

"My kids are grateful to be born out of true love. Everything else I was trying to piece together... He's such a supporter of mine and I'm really happy we're on such great terms".

Pamela Anderson and Kid Rock.

Kid Rock and Pamela Anderson
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Anderson began dating musician Kid Rock in 2001 and the couple got engaged in 2002.

They called off the wedding in 2003, but in July 2006 it was announced they were getting married on a yacht near Saint-Tropez, France.

In true rock-star style, they partied with Kid Rock in a white t-shirt and Anderson wearing a white string bikini.

After just 122 days, Kid Rock filed for divorce. Rumours at the time pointed to her appearance in Borat, and in May, Sacha Baron Cohen seemed to confirm this.

In the final scenes of the movie, Borat attempts to kidnap Anderson and bring her back to Kazakhstan to be his wife. Baron Cohen literally put a seemingly shocked Anderson over his shoulder to sprint away. Anderson was in on the joke and had consented to being in the movie.

But Kid Rock was not happy, Baron Cohen told the Daily Beast's Last Laugh podcast that he texted Anderson after they attended a screening of the film, to find out what her husband thought.


Anderson then texted back, "He's getting divorced," Baron Cohen recalled. He asked her why, to which Anderson replied, “The movie.”

“And I thought it was a joke, but then a few weeks later they got divorced and they put as a reason for divorce, 'Borat,' ” Baron Cohen said.

In 2018 Anderson told the Hollywood Reporter she has not spoken to Kid Rock since their divorce was finalised in 2007.

Pamela Anderson and Rick Salomon.

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In September 2007, Anderson appeared on The Ellen DeGeneres Show and announced that she was engaged – but she refused to identify her finance other than to say he was a poker player.

A month later, she married poker player Rick Salomon – best known as Paris Hilton's ex–- in Las Vegas, during a break between two performances of a magic show, where Anderson was starring as the magician's assistant.

The couple separated two months later on December 13, and on February 22, 2008, Anderson requested through the courts that the marriage be annulled, citing fraud. The marriage was annulled in March 2008.

In October 2013, Anderson stated on The Ellen DeGeneres Show that she and Salomon were "friends with benefits".

In January 2014, she announced that she had remarried Salomon on an unspecified date. In July of that year, she filed for divorce. It was granted on April 29, 2015.