The sex toys older couples can't get enough of.

One in three people aged over 64 are embracing sex toys and are more than willing to explore new forms of pleasure in the bedroom, according to new research, proving getting older is no barrier to a great sex life

A sexy new survey conducted by adult store Wild Secrets, also showed shoppers aged between 55 and 64 were the store's fast-growing market, experiencing a 15 per cent surge in sales over the past 12 months.  

The nationwide study explored how attitudes towards sex and sex toys change over time, revealing that sexual desire and adventurousness don't necessarily decline with age. In fact, your sex life may get a little spicier.

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Almost half of interviewees aged in their 60s said their sexual confidence had increased with age, while almost 70 per cent of those under 60 reported a boost in sexual confidence as they got older.  

Sex toys and pleasure devices are becoming increasingly normalised in society across all demographics, and the sixth decade is no exception. 

"The biggest myth is that the older you get, the less sex you want," reported one anonymous respondent. Another participant quickly shot down the notion that "desire dies with age". 


Sexologist Kass Mourikis agrees, saying sex – like a fine wine – can get better with age. 

"So throw away the misconception that there is a use-by date on sexual pleasure," she says. "With age comes the wisdom of knowing yourself, a lifetime of confidence to ask for what you want and a freedom to try new things."

According Mourikis, as your life and body changes, so does the way you feel about sexual desire. 

"When you let go of expectations of how sex should feel, you open yourself up to new ways of experiencing pleasure," she tells Mamamia.

"Sex when you're older can be so freeing. You get to challenge all these things that you felt like you were locked into when you were younger." 

When you increase pleasure, you increase desire. And luckily, there are many ways to enhance pleasure, whether you're single or in a relationship. 

"Have fun experimenting with what feels good. You could even try things you haven't tried before, like new positions or pleasure products."

Bestselling author, podcaster and former escort agency owner, Amanda Goff, previously known as Samantha X, agrees that sex only gets better, and says older women were some of her most popular escorts. 

"One of my busiest ladies was a 64-year-old, who I called Granny Angel. She attracted all kinds of men, from young handsome types, to older sophisticated men. We [older women] are more confident in our bodies and don't stress about the small stuff and we don't need to point out our insecurities, we accept them! 


"I've always said, to be good in bed is all about self-confidence, not tricks, and women over 50 have plenty of that."

Mourikis says while it's normal for desire to fluctuate throughout your life, there are deliberate ways to strengthen it. 

"Pleasure is at the core of desire," she says. "To bring back desire, make the effort to connect with things that are pleasurable to you."

For those who do want to boost their sex life, Wild Secrets has revealed the top ten sex toys, customers aged over 60, are taking to the bedroom. 

Satisfyer Pro 2, $89.99.

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Why we love it: This global bestseller uses gentle air pulses to stimulate the clitoris. The unique sucking sensation delivers touch-free, incredible orgasms.    

Wild Secrets Glow Vibrating Wand, $95.99.

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Why we love it: Stimulate your external erogenous zones with this easy-to-grip wand. Large buttons make it easy to control.

Fleshlight Quickshot Vantage Masturbator, $54.99.

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Why we love it: This male masturbator stimulates great oral sex.

Vush Orb Pleasure Ring, $80.

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Why we love it: This pleasure ring is the perfect couple's toy for those wanting to introduce something new into the bedroom. Either try it out solo, or with your partner.

Doc Johnson Vibrating Female Pump, $224.99.

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Why we love it: Heighten your clitoral, nipple and vulva pleasure with sensual suction. 

Wild Secrets Water-based Lubricant, $24.99.

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Why we love it: Reduce friction and amplify pleasure with this water-based lubricant. This versatile fluid lubricates for internal and external play. Making it even easier to be intimate.

Blowmotion Warming Vibrating Male Masturbator, $129.95.

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Why we love it: The Blowmotion Warming Vibrating Male Masturbator envelopes the head of the penis in smooth silicone. This toy features six vibration patterns with three intensities each, and warms up to 40°C making it feel incredibly lifelike. 

We-Vibe Bond Wearable Stimulation Ring, $162.99.

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Why we love it: Build anticipation with this remote-controlled, waterproof, wearable ring. Play with 10 vibration speeds and patterns. Featuring a quick-release system designed for comfort and safety.


OUCH! Beginners Metal & Fur Handcuffs, $15.99.

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Why we love it: Have fun with your lover as you explore light bondage play. These beginner-friendly metal cuffs feature fluffy faux fur accents so you can restrain, or be restrained, in comfort.

Honey Birdette Maxx Inflatable Toy, $200.

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Why we love it: This inflatable toy is designed to truly test your limits. Perfect for solo and partnered play, the Maxx is perfect for those wanting some backdoor stimulation.

Wild Secrets Kiss Bullet, $41.99.

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Why we love it: Small bullet. Big orgasms! One button control and functions with 10 vibration modes.

Lelo Tiani Duo Couples Vibrator, $175.99.

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Why we love it: Connect deeply with the flexible, U-Shaped Lelo Tiani for internal and external sweet spot stimulation. The SenseMotion Technology allows you to control the vibration intensity by simply tilting the remote.

Lovehoney G-Tickler Clitoral and G-Spot Vibrator, $34.95.

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Why we love it: This clitoral and G-spot vibrator is beginner-friendly, making it the ideal first-time vibrator. It features 3 speeds and 4 patterns and is fully waterproof.

Adam & Eve Silicone Prostate Massager, $71.99.

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Why we love it: An ergonomic, waterproof prostate pleaser for novices and veterans alike.

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