In 2009, Octomum was the world's most famous mother. This is what her life looks like now.

In 2009, Nadya Suleman was the most famous mum in the world.

After having six children via in vitro fertilisation (IVF), Suleman visited her doctor in the hopes of having just one more baby. But Suleman's doctor had other ideas.

Claiming that most of her embryos would fail to survive, Suleman's doctor encouraged her to implant her 12 remaining embryos.

In the end, she went through with the procedure and unbelievably, eight embryos survived.

As her pregnancy successfully progressed, Suleman soon became famously known as 'Octomum', or 'Octomom' in American spelling, and in January 2009 she gave birth to eight children – six boys and two girls.

At the time of the octuplets' birth, there was outrage worldwide.

Watch: Nadya (now Natalie) Suleman, formerly 'Octomum', on raising 14 kids. Post continues below.

Octomum was single, jobless, and she was living with her mother rent-free. At one point, the backlash became so bad that there were calls for the octuplets to be placed into care.

But four years later in 2012, the backlash intensified even more. Struggling to make ends meet with 14 children to support, Suleman turned to jobs including porn, stripping and nude photo shoots. She did it all in a bid to make money to raise a family of her own.

Where is Octomum now?

Now, 14 years on from the birth of the octuplets, Suleman, who now goes by the name Natalie, acknowledges the mistakes she made along the way.

"I think I was young, dumb, irresponsible, reckless," Suleman told Sunday Night reporter Angela Cox in 2020.

In recent years, Suleman hasn't been afraid to open up about her tumultuous years in the spotlight.

"Some of the things that I have done – of course that I'm ashamed of in the past – was just to put food on the table and just to take care of my family," Suleman admitted in a previous interview. "My kids get embarrassed because their friends sometimes will say 'My mum said your mum's a stripper'."

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Suleman admitted that she decided to turn her life around when a stranger approached her at a strip club she was working at.

"I was in a strip club in Florida in February 2013, and this very tall man, this stranger came in," she told New Idea.

"He walked straight to me and looked straight into my eyes. He took my hand and grabbed my arm and said in a very gentle, but firm way: 'You don't have to do this.' He repeated it five times," she added.

"I knew I had to be my healthy self again. I didn't want my kids not to have a mum."

In recent years, Suleman has been working as a counsellor, and also considers motherhood to be a full-time job. 

"I went back to my life as a counsellor. I went back and my kids had a healthy, happy life," she explained on The Doctors.

Although the years have passed since the birth of the octuplets, the physical and mental effects of their birth and the resulting backlash are still prominent.

"I have PTSD from all the reporters coming in over the years," she told The New York Times.

"My back is broken because of the last pregnancy. Four out of the five discs in my lumbar spine are ruptured, herniated fully. And I have irreparable sacral damage. And I have peripheral neuropathy. I haven't felt my toes on my foot on the right side for many years, and my fingers are numb all the time every day. The pregnancy caused it all."

Where are Octomum's children now?

Ranging in age from 14 to 21 years old, Suleman's children – Amerah, Calyssa, Elijah, Jonah, Joshua, Aidan, Isaiah, Noah, Josiah, Makai, Jeremiah, Maliah, Nariah, and Caleb – have certainly grown up since the controversial birth of 'the eight'.

On January 26, 2022, the octuplets Noah, Maliyah, Nariyah, Isaiah, Jeremiah, Jonah, Josiah and Makai celebrated their 14th birthday, with Suleman sharing a rare photo of all eight together, celebrating the milestone.

"You are some of the most loving, thoughtful, conscientious, and humble human beings I have ever known," she said in a birthday tribute.

"The struggles we've endured over the years, have strengthened our connections to one another. I am blessed beyond measure to be your mother."

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With such a large family, Suleman has admitted that she very rarely takes all 14 children out of the house at once.

"She'll get anxiety, everyone staring, so she'll take whoever's behaving the best. There's ups and downs," Suleman's teenage daughter Amerah told The New York Times.

In August 2019, Suleman opened up about the difficulties of raising her teen son Aidan, who has autism and needs care and assistance at all times.

"This is my adolescent infant Aidan. Aidan is severely autistic and [needs] total care. He requires complete assistance in meeting all needs in activities of daily living," she wrote on her Instagram.

"Aidan is non-verbal, requires feeding, changing (he is not potty trained), bathing, and one-to-one supervision, as he has no safety awareness and would walk aimlessly into traffic. I, his mother, am, and always have been, his ONLY care provider. This 'job' is my life (other than caring for 13 other children single-handedly). My children are my LIFE."

Suleman went on to share that after dropping 11 of her children off for their first day of school, she took Aidan to the park where he had a meltdown.

"He dropped to the ground, threw water bottles, took off shoes and propelled those at my head. As soon as we arrived home I bathed, changed and fed exhausted Aidan and held him until he fell asleep."

Despite suffering relentless pain from a broken back caused by her octuplet pregnancy, Suleman said she continues to "physically care for her son, and will never give up on him".

"I love him with all my heart, and will care for him until I die."

Her eldest child, Elijah, recently celebrated his 21st birthday. In a tribute post to her son, Suleman admitted her heart "broke" for him when she had her eight youngest children.

"My heart broke for you, as the life you once knew spiralled into a state of pandemonium; seemingly the weight of the world upon your tiny shoulders," she wrote. 

"Not only was my heavy heart saddened by the sudden change in your life, but my parenting deeply driven by guilt."

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In 2022, Suleman shared a rare photo of eight of her 14 children on their first day of eighth grade. 

"First day of 8th grade. Be proud of yourselves kids for being kind, respectful, and helpful to all your fellow peers, teachers and staff. You are exceptional role models to the 6th and 7th graders," she wrote.

She added that her eldest children did not "want me" to a post a picture of them. "I respect their choice, so should you."

Speaking in an interview with The New York Times in 2018, Suleman's eldest son opened up about what it was like having so many siblings.

"Some of my friends don't have any siblings, so they want to know what it's like. It's nice to have someone to play with, but it can be overwhelming at times," he said.

This article was originally published on January 9, 2020, and was updated in January 2023 with new information.

Feature image via Instagram: @nataliesuleman.