By Brigid Andersen and Jason Om.
The chief of the Navy has apologised for giving a sailor who murdered his ex-girlfriend a funeral with full military honours.
In April 2013, Elliott Coulson strangled 32-year-old Kate Malonyay in her unit on Sydney’s north shore, several months after she had ended their year-long relationship.
In the days after her death, Coulson used Ms Malonyay’s mobile phone to impersonate her, texting her friends and family when they became worried about her.
He then fled to the Gold Coast, where he booked into the Marriott Hotel. When police stormed the hotel room Coulson took his life by jumping off the balcony.
Days later, the Australian Navy gave Coulson a funeral with full military honours.
Ms Malonyay’s friend Melissa Meredith told the ABC’s Hitting Home documentary of her shock at the military’s involvement.
“Those kind of ceremonies are for heroes. This guy was not a hero,” she said.
The documentary prompted Lauren Sams to start a change.org petition demanding that the chief of Navy, Vice Admiral Tim Barrett, apologise and donate the cost of the funeral to a domestic violence support group.
The petition has more than 10,000 signatures.
“I just became so angry that something that is meant to be saved for the very best people in our society — people who put their lives on the line, people who risk their lives, who go out of their way, who spend their lives helping other people — something that’s usually reserved for them was wasted on someone who represents the very worst in society,” Ms Sams told Lateline.