Confession: I hide meat in my one-year-old’s food so she will eat it.
My daughter L-O-V-E-S vegetables. She insists on having two servings of broccolini. Peas are shoved into her mouth by the fistful. Cucumber and tomato salad deserves a little dance in the high chair.
Okay, I know what you are thinking. Boo hoo, go cry somewhere else, my kid H-A-T-E-S vegetables and equates the colour green to poison.
I’m sure I will one day be trying to bribe my daughter to finish her vegetables, but at the moment, I’m panicking about her not eating meat.
I’ve been vegan for five years. For five years, I have been constantly bombarded with questions about what I will feed my future children. Since giving birth, people who I meet and discover that I’m vegan are on edge until I tell them that I serve my daughter shredded beef three times a week.
For a while there, she was a lover of the pureed bolognese I made and then a lover of the shredded beef when the rule “No food shall be eaten off a spoon” was enacted.
The past two months though, she has become less of a fan. She’s never been thrilled by chicken. The shredded beef is spat out (or dropped over the side of the highchair into my dog’s waiting open mouth). I’ve tried meatballs (eww, gross Mum), I’ve tried sausages (no, that’s just weird Mum). Yesterday, I tried cooking some chicken in a little bit of apple juice… three mouthfuls were swallowed before she decided that apple tasting chicken isn’t quite right. I’ve pretended to feed her a piece of pasta, but snuck in some meat instead… 50 per cent of the time it works.
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Don't stress too much :) my son has been the same for months at a time, that finger food little one year old phase in particular - every bite of salad or veg gone, any meat rejected. He's four now and still a bit the same but I keep offering it up and gradually he's drifted into eating it most times it is served. I figure he's getting what he needs, there's a lot of colour and fresh food going into his mouth and he's growing and strong. Our approach is not to get invested, the meal is served, what he eats of it isn't going to become a power play and that way meals stay happy and relaxed. I hope that your little one goes a similar way, or that at least you yourself can start feeling more relaxed about it - you sound like you're doing a wonderful job, mama, keep it up x
Maybe a chat with a dietician might help? Someone who can tell you what she needs and what are acceptable substitutes. From your description, it sounds like a case of like mother, like daughter! :)