When you reach a certain age you start to notice a difference in your social media networks. Heartwarming and creative pregnancy announcements begin to dominate your news feeds.
Your friends and family members excitedly announce their parent-to-be statuses online and you can’t help but share in their joy. It’s a really beautiful moment.
But what do you do when that pregnancy ends in a miscarriage? How do you announce that loss to your social media networks? How do you share that pain?
Recently, 31-year-old Tanisha Sharnee from Brooklyn, shared her story of The Public Pain Of Announcing your Miscarriage On Facebook with Broadly.
When Sharnee found out that she was pregnant she was ecstatic. Since experiencing a miscarriage four years earlier, Sharnee had thought that motherhood was never going to be a reality for her.
She announced her pregnancy on Facebook when she was two months along. Although some people were concerned that Sharnee had announced her pregnancy so early, overwhelmingly she received well wishes.
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I announced on FB when we lost our daughter at 23 weeks, people knew I was pregnant, knew how loved our little one was. Those closest to us knew we had found true on our 20 weeks scan and when all was said and done I just wanted to be left alone, but I had to tell people. I couldn't bare the thought of messages asking me how I and the baby were doing. FB allowed me to tell everyone in my life all at once and to ask that people have us space. If I'd had to face everyone individually I think I'd have had a breakdowm
I think that if you want to announce pregnancy, you need to prepared to announce something at some point if it ends.
I personally never announced anything on facebook until my daughter was born.