Vanity is expensive. I discovered this a few years ago when I went to
visit my dermatologist for my annual skin cancer inspection. I had a
pimple at the time – one of those awful blind ones that take forever to
disappear and look like a mutant facial feature – and I was complaining
about it. “I can get rid of that right now if you like,” she said
casually, while glancing over a few harmless freckles.
It turns out, you can get this kind of zit injected with something or
other and it disappears instantly. Celebrities do it all the time. When
she worked in LA, my doctor and her colleagues would be urgently
summoned to movie sets and photo shoots to work their injectible magic.
The only downside is the price: about $100 per jab. Which is fine when
you’re Cameron Diaz, harder to justify when you’re not. Naturally, I
justified it. Cash gone. Zit gone.
Vanity can also be fickle. Clearly, I am vain. But it’s not a blanket
policy. I care how I look. I spend a disproportionate amount of my
income on attempts to look better – clothes, haircuts, eyebrow shaping.
And yet at other times, unexpectedly, my vanity vanishes. Pouf. Like
when I find myself at the fruit shop in my pyjama pants, old t-shirt,
no bra, hair unwashed, very Helena Bonham Carter*.
Are you becoming more or less vain as you get older? I put this question to a few friends this week and they all agreed that while aging throws up more invasive options for feeding the vanity monster (botox, boob lifts, hair transplants etc), your priorities change. Explained one: “I’m still vain, but when I was in my twenties vanity was all about being skinny. I enjoy food too much now to care about being that thin. These days waxing and blow-dries are my vanity indulgence. But I’m 41 and single so I have to look good. There are far too many younger, hotter women right behind me.”
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That the funniest thing I've read in ages. Collette Dinnigan Mia? ROTF
Things I'm not looking forward to!!!
nude? I've never heard that before? Common seemingly?
This past weekend, as I turned 41, I had my hair blown-out and got waxed...then went to brunch and dinner...priorities.