Michelle Payne's mum died when she just six months old. Years later, she lost her sister too.

There’s been a lot of criticism levelled at the horse racing industry in recent years, but the inspirational story of Michelle Payne – the first ever female winner of the Melbourne Cup – has softened debate, even if only for a second.

Her triumphs, her tragedies, her perseverance and her grit have been brought to life on the big screen in the inspirational Aussie film Ride Like A Girl, directed by actress Rachel Griffiths.

Michelle made history in 2015 as the first female jockey in the Cup’s 155 year history to win – sealing the deal with her now famous reaction “get stuffed,” which was directed at her critics.

Michelle winning the Melbourne Cup. Post continues after video.

Video by Nine

Michelle grew up near Ballarat in Victoria and was the youngest of 10 children.

Her mother Mary died when she was just six months old in a car crash, leaving her father Paddy to raise the Payne brood by himself.

In her memoir Life As I Know It, Michelle explained that her mum had been driving some of her siblings to school when another mum on the school run crashed into the car’s driver door.

Michelle’s sister Therese took on a mother figure role in her life, with The Australian reporting that she used to fall asleep at school after getting up during the night to feed her infant sister.

As a four-year-old Michelle remembers yearning for her mum – for her protection.

She wrote in her book: “My dad tells me the story that one night I was lying in bed with him and I’d decided that Mum would be the solution to my problems. She would make things right.

“Can we go and dig her up?” I asked. “Then the kids won’t pull my hair anymore.”

The Payne family has long been entrenched in the world of horse racing, with Michelle and seven of her siblings all going on to become jockeys. Their brother Stevie, who has Down Syndrome, became a strapper. Mary looks after the family’s books.

RIDE LIKE A GIRL World Premiere - Arrivals
Michelle and her family at the premiere for Ride Like A Girl. Image: Graham Denholm/Getty.

In 1996, racing writer Tony Kneebone wrote a book on the Paynes but Paddy warned the author at the time that it was "probably premature, because the little one is likely to end up better than the lot of them".

At the time Michelle was only 11.

From age seven, the youngest Payne was determined to one day win the Melbourne Cup, and was racing horses by the age of 15.

She had a natural talent but her career was plagued by injury - and after one particular head injury in 2004 when she was 18, her family begged her to retire.

She fell heavily during a race in Melbourne fracturing her skull and bruising her brain. It took 15 months to recover completely - she had no short term memory for two months and broke her wrist during that time as well.

Michelle was never one for the sidelines, telling The Age not long after her accident, "I love riding so much. There is nothing worse than being on the sidelines and having to watch. I just love riding and I love the horses and when you win and the owners are all so happy, it's just . . . the feeling's unbelievable."

Michelle Payne
Michelle Payne in action, doing what she loves. Image: Pat Scala/Getty.

In 2007, the Payne family was once again hit by tragedy, with the eldest sibling Brigid dying from a heart attack after having a seizure at the age of 36.

Doctors believed her death was linked to a fall during track work six months earlier, which left her in an induced coma.

Michelle continued to throw herself into racing after her sister's sudden death, and in 2009 she won her first Group One at racing's highest level. As a result she was offered a place in the Caulfield Cup, and was just the third female jockey to compete.

When Michelle Payne won the Melbourne Cup in 2015, she completely defied the odds. Her horse, Prince of Penzance was 100-1 in the odds prior to the race. After the win she took to the stage at Flemington racecourse and said, “It’s such a chauvinistic sport, a lot of the owners wanted to kick me off.

“It’s a very male-dominated sport and people think we [women] are not strong enough and all of the rest of it, but it’s not all about strength.

"It's so much more involved...it's getting the horse into a rhythm, getting the horse to try for you - it's about being patient."

Michelle Payne
Michelle's speech after her win made history. Image: Seven.

Her horse was strapped on the day by her brother Stevie, who she thanked in her speech for helping her to victory.

“I think it’s great for other people with Down Syndrome, to see how capable they can be in normal life,” she told the ABC in a later interview.

“Stevie can pretty much do anything, and look after himself when he’s on his own,” she added.

Ride Like A Girl Partners Announcement
Michelle Payne and her brother Stevie Payne. Image: Pat Scala/Getty.

Their father Paddy was equally as proud telling The Australian Stevie's triumph that day was at least as important as Michelle's win as jockey.

“I rang up the Down Syndrome Association and I said to them, ‘well this kid’s done good’ and I reckon it was because he was brought up normally with all the other kids," he told the publication.

Stevie was the only Payne to play himself in Ride Like A Girl, with director Rachel Griffiths telling Mia Freedman in No Filter they actually wrote him in more scenes after seeing how amazing he was on screen.


Here's the No Filter chat. Post continues after podcast.

After her galvanising speech at the Melbourne Cup, Michelle did notice a bit of pushback.

As she explained to Andrew Denton in an episode of Interview, "Two days later at Oakes day, there was a writeup in the paper from another rider saying I shouldn't have said that. But I totally disagreed obviously".

But overwhelmingly the reaction was one of immense support from women everywhere, with Michelle as a result being heralded as a feminist hero.

In 2016, Michelle's career again faced an injury hurdle - she was hospitalised with internal bleeding after she fell off a horse and had her stomach trampled on. She returned to racing four months later, but noted that her future goals included transitioning from being a jockey to becoming a trainer.

That same year she was honoured in the Sport Australia Hall of Fame, but in 2017 she was stood down from racing for a month after testing positive for the drug Phentermine, an appetite suppressant.


Payne said after the investigation; "The onus is 100 per cent with me… I regret not seeking more guidance, I wasn’t thorough, and that is completely my fault. My sincere apologies to everyone."

She was also fined $1500 in 2017 and $300 in 2018 for comments she made on social media about the firmness of certain race day tracks, with her other public setback involving trainer Darren Weir who trained her Melbourne Cup winning horse. The two had a falling out after he decided she was no longer the right jockey for Prince of Penzance. Weir was this year banned from racing for four years after illegal "shock devices" were found on his property.

A now 34-year-old Michelle lives her life relatively out of the spotlight (apart from this new movie, of course). She houses 25 horses on her farm, and trains 16 of them.“I’m waiting for when it feels right [to retire],” she told Vogue in August. “I know it’s coming, but I’ve got a few dreams in mind I hope will come before then.”

Theresa and Michelle
Michelle is played by Theresa Palmer in the film about her life. Instagram/Ridelikeagirl.

Training, riding and winning on a horse of her own at Royal Ascot is the ultimate dream for Michelle now, but she is also considering becoming a nurse when she eventually leaves the horse racing world.

She's also keen to start her own family, although she told Vogue she's still in a new relationship so is keeping details of her love life private for now.

Ride Like A Girl, which is based on Michelle's story is in cinemas now.

00:00 / ???