Arguments about maternity leave have been raging on for years.
But there’s a new debate gaining speed over one woman’s struggle for “meternity” leave – and it’s not pretty.
Author Meghann Foye has argued that childfree women should be given time off work to pursue their personal goals, saying expectant mothers get an unfair advantage.
In a NY Post piece entitled “I want all the perks of maternity leave – without having any kids,” Foye writes that new mothers enjoy a “socially mandated time and space for self-reflection”that non-mothers may never experience.
"It seemed that parenthood was the only path that provided a modicum of flexibility," she writes, reflecting on her experiences as a busy magazine editor.
"There’s something about saying 'I need to go pick up my child' as a reason to leave the office on time that has far more gravitas than, say, 'My best friend just got ghosted by her OkCupid date and needs a margarita' — but both sides are valid."
She therefore proposes that "women and, to a lesser degree, men" should be allowed "meternity," which she defines as "a sabbatical-like break... to shift their focus to the part of their lives that doesn’t revolve around their jobs."
Perhaps unsurprisingly, Foye has faced severe criticism from parents, who are quick to point out that maternity leave is not a luxury holiday or a journey of self-discovery.
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"Perks" of motherhood? Let me tell you, it ain't no walk in the park. Its the hardest job in the world. If ML wasn't available no one would have kids. There ain't no peaceful tea or lunch breaks, no 5pm finish, no sick days or lazy days. Its 24/7 365 days a year & you dont have a break on the weekend or holidays. You're working all day, everyday. For me, work was so much easier....I know mothers who work for a break from motherhood! ML is a necessity not a privledge so why should people have an extra break without having a baby, a baby is work. Full stop 😊
"Perks" of maternity leave? Sista please, it ain't no walk in the park, if we didn't have maternity leave no one would have kids because believe me its the hardest job in the world. No tea break, no free lunch time, no 5pm finish! No calling in sick & having a day off. Sorry but work was way easier & when you have a holiday you don't have a break at all. Ain't no such thing as a break on holiday for a mother or any time for that matter, its 24/7, 365 days a year. There has to ibe something for new mothers, I dont think its a privilege at all. Its very much needed!