"Before last night, I didn't know one person could survive this much tragedy."

Maurice Gleeson was 12 and a half when he had an accident at school.

He went to turn around a corner, and he collided with another student – an occurrence that must happen countless times a day, in schools all over Australia.

But for Maurice, the accident didn’t end with bruises or cuts or a (slightly unnecessary) ice pack, as most of our childhood injuries do.

It resulted in a double detached retina. His vision went blurry, and he was taken to hospital. The doctors operated, and when the bandages were removed, Maurice could see again. But when he stood up to take a shower, the retinas tore away a second time. That would mark the beginning of a lifetime of blindness for a now 13-year-old boy, and the beginning of a decade so tragic it defies belief.

Watch Maurice Gleeson speak to Charlie Pickering about his story. Post continues after video. 

Video via ABC

“I should’ve wagged school that day,” Maurice told Charlie Pickering on Wednesday night’s episode of The Weekly.

It’s his humour and optimism that leaves his next story lingering uncomfortably in the air, while the audience tries desperately to understand how it could possibly true.

“About 18 months later, he [my brother] lost his sight in a supermarket door,” Maurice said. “Many years ago, people of a certain generation can remember… you used to tread on a mat and the door would open up or in or out. In this occasion, it hit him on the head, and also resulted in a double detached retina.”

And so it happened – Maurice’s brother, Nick, went blind.

To call the two accidents a ‘coincidence’ seems to wildly underestimate the immense pain the events must have caused Maurice, Nick, and their family. Supporting two sons with a serious physical disability, and one son without, must have felt scary and sad and frustrating and unfair for Maurice’s parents. How do you make sense of two freak accidents and their permanent consequences?

Charlie Pickering with Maurice Gleeson. Image via ABC.

How does that happen? How unlucky can one family be? Even more so, it would seem.

"I had a brother who was in between Nick and myself," Maurice told Pickering. "He died at the age of 22 in a shooting accident."

"Him and a group of friends were mucking around, and thought the gun wasn't loaded but it was loaded, and he was shot and he died in the accident."


Three boys, three accidents, and one death.

"In those days, parents didn't get counselling or support... these things happened and you had to get on with your life," Maurice said. "But both of them died suddenly as well, 49 years old and 52, so that was a very challenging 10 or 12 years."

Within a decade, Maurice had gone blind, his brother had gone blind, he'd lost another brother to a shooting accident, and his parents had died. It's no surprise he was struggling.

"I was struggling with life, I was struggling to find an answer of why these things are happening," he said. "There were low moments where I didn't want to wake up. I couldn't face the day."

Maurice told Pickering he "tried to get help in many places," but nothing made him feel any better. "What they [counsellors] try to do is resolve the issue," he explained. "They didn't acknowledge how I was feeling."

Maurice Gleeson. Image via ABC.

But there was one moment that made a difference.

"A friend of mine from the country came down, and she came and hugged me and said 'Maurice, you've had a tragic life,' and how terrible it's been," he said. "Once she sort of acknowledged how I was feeling, I was determined to survive, and for the last 30 or so years I've had the most wonderful life."

And, indeed, Maurice's life has been nothing short of extraordinary. He's studied and traveled and had more diverse experiences than most people do in a lifetime. He's been skydiving. 

When he was in his 30s, he took an 87-year-old blind woman overseas for the first time. He was a social worker and she was his client, and he was told, 'if you don't take her, she'll never go'. So he went. "I don't know how we survived," he told Pickering.

The segment left me with a weird kind of sadness. This man's story is so deeply unfair. It's a reminder that life doesn't operate with any rhyme or rhythm - it can be cruel and tumultuous and entirely nonsensical. But my unsettling emotional response wasn't only to do with Maurice - it was to do with me.

I am so imaginably lucky.

And I don't think I'll ever fully comprehend it.

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