Marry Me is a return to the romantic comedies we used to know and love.

There was a moment in the early noughties when romantic comedies hit their peak. 

We'd fallen in love with Meg Ryan and Billy Crystal's chunky knits and witty banter in When Harry Met Sally. 

We'd watched a wholesomely awkward Hugh Grant bumble his way into a relationship with Julia Roberts' Anna in Notting Hill

We'd felt warm and fuzzy inside when Mark Darcy told Bridget Jones he loved her 'just as she is' in Bridget Jones' Diary. 

Romantic comedies had become a staple at the box office and in our own personal DVD collections.

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We knew exactly what we were going to get when we sat down to watch a rom-com and for the most part, they delivered.

They offered the perfect balance of rom and com. They were comforting and fun. And they made us believe in magic if only for the 96 minutes of running time.  

Then somewhere around 2010, romantic comedies began to shift.  

The comedy soon began outweighing the romantic, and frat boys ending up with women way out of their league, plus a plethora of penis and poo jokes, started dominating the genre. 

There's only so many explosive diarrhea storylines you can sit through before you start to wonder whether we've all lost our way a little. 

I believe that last great romantic comedy was 2013's About Time. It had it all - quirky British comedy, Rachel McAdams' whimsical face, an awkward British male lead, Bill Nighy, and just a touch of time travel. 

After About Time, things in the romantic comedy universe began to rapidly go downhill. 

In the last few years, romantic comedies have made a bit of a comeback on streaming services. But unlike the classics, they're often cheaply made and lacking in magic. They're meant to be quickly consumed and easily forgotten. 

They don't produce the one-liners and memorable moments like a Nora Ephron or Nancy Meyers' film was guaranteed to.  

Now don't get me wrong, the classic rom-coms had much room for improvement. They were mostly exclusively about thin, wealthy white people falling in love with each other. There was very little racial or body diversity, and Jennifer Lopez remains the only woman of colour to compete in a market saturated with Sandra Bullocks and Reese Witherspoons. 


Image: Universal Pictures. 

For almost a decade, it seemed like the rom-com was dead. Do not resuscitate. 

Then this week, Marry Me hit cinemas. 

I was lucky enough to attend an advanced screening on Tuesday night and I left the cinema feeling as though I had been transported back to the mid-noughties for two hours. 

It was bliss. 

The movie follows the story of pop star Kat Valdez (aka Jennifer Lopez playing a fictional version of herself) and single dad and middle school maths teacher Charlie Gilbert (Owen Wilson). 

Kat is at the top of her game and is just about to marry her pop star boyfriend Bastian (Maluma) live on stage when she discovers he's been cheating on her. 

While making a tearful speech to the 10,000-strong crowd about the 'truth behind the headlines', she spots Charlie in the audience holding a sign that reads 'Marry Me'. 

She says yes, which confuses both Owen Wilson and his nose, and the pair tie the knot on stage. 

There are no prizes for guessing what happens next. This is a rom-com after all, and over the one hour and 52 minute running time our mismatched leads slowly fall in love with each other. 


Image: Universal Pictures. 

There are also some quirky best friends, an adorable kid with stage fright, a dash to the airport, and a soundtrack you'll listen to all the way home from the cinemas. 

Marry Me is not a new concept. In fact, the film leans on well-trodden rom-com tropes and borrows a few plotlines from movies like Notting Hill and The Proposal, but it sprinkles them with enough cheese and charm that you're not even bothered that you saw each and every plot twist coming. 

It also features a diverse cast in every sense of the word. The cast reflects what a classroom, a stadium audience and a family looks like in 2022. 

And underneath the cheese, the film makes some poignant points about the role of social media and tabloid culture in our lives. 

Watching Marry Me is like returning to a new and improved 2006. And that's exactly what we need right now. 

Marry Me is showing in cinemas across Australia now. 

Keryn Donnelly is Mamamia's Pop Culture Editor. For more of her TV, film and book recommendations and to see photos of her dog, follow her on Instagram and TikTok.