Growing up, I wanted to be everything under the sun: a potter, a painter, a singer, an actress, an air hostess, even an astronaut.

I begged my mum for singing lessons, pleaded with my dad to try acting, and tried to beverypersuasive in having my brother move his football practice so the parents could take me to learn to tumble.

But I didn’t actually end up doing... any of them.

I had a very active sibling, parents who worked full time and what I now understand was (and still is!), a very indecisive nature. All of these things contributed to me not being able to do many of the things I wanted to do. And these things ultimately contributed to me sometimes being too afraid to try something new as an adult.

But as I got older and worked within media and sales, I grew out of feeling uncomfortable and actually thrived outside of my comfort zone.

I went solo to macramé workshops, joined a soccer team full of strangers and successfully completed a stand-up comedy course.

This is the stuff that makes me feel alive; makes me feel accomplished and like I can face any challenge. I’ve learnt to use my imagination and to embrace my quirks. This, in turn, has made me a more confident and less fearful adult.

I now have two daughters of my own, and society today can sometimes make them feel the size of a pea; that they need to be quiet to be respected, or that they need to conform to be accepted.

But I don’t want them to just go with the grain, I want to give them as much opportunity as possible to feel the way that I do now. To be themselves by being brave.

Getting out of their comfort zones and trying things that might be different or feel scary is the perfect way to build resilience and encourage growth.

Here are 6 ways we can all get our children out of their comfort zones and help encourage their self-expression.

Live theatre.

There’s nothing quite like live performance and children's theatre to help broaden a child’s imagination. Watching characters come to life through storytelling – right before your eyes – creates an immersive experience for children. The lights, the sounds, the effortless release of self-expression.

It’s an all-encompassing experience for their senses.

Western Australia’s award-winning Barking Gecko Theatre has introduced the magic of live theatre to thousands of children and their families for over 30 years. In 2022 they are performing two productions you and your children won’t want to miss – The Great Un-Wondering of Wilbur Whittaker (showing 9-16 April) and Cicada (showing 9-16 July). Both shows open in Perth before rocketing off to tour regional WA.

When Wilbur Whittaker surrenders a special shoebox of his most precious childhood wonderings, he must go on an extraordinary adventure into the furthest reaches of outer space in The Great Un-Wondering of Wilbur Whittaker. Joined by a cast of fantastical characters along the way, Wilbur must remember how to wonder once more and restore order to the galaxy.

A brand new Australian play about creativity, growing up and living outside of the box, it’s a heartfelt and irreverent adventure across the universe for the whole family.

Cicada brings master-storyteller Shaun Tan’s award-winning picture book of the same name to life with exquisite puppetry. It tells a story about, well, a cicada, who works away in a grey office, unappreciated and dreaming of escape. Then one day, something truly extraordinary starts to happen.

It's an enchanting tale of resilience and difference, that celebrates the light that we all have inside ourselves. The light that your children are sure to seek after seeing it. A story of big ideas and one very adorable little insect.

Public speaking

For children, this is the crème de la crème of I-am-absolutely-not-doing-that.

Public speaking can make them feel scared, vulnerable, uncomfortable and like they’re being judged. What they don’t realise is that it's setting them up with some really important life skills.

Most schools provide opportunities for students to participate in public speaking competitions and opportunities, and I can’t recommend your children participating enough.

My daughter loves writing speeches but when it comes to presenting them, she can get really nervous and her performance often won’t have the same energy and conviction that it does when she is at home practising in her room.

But, with our encouragement, she keeps trying and improves every single time.

The excitement and pride she exudes after speaking in front of others is absolutely heart-warming. It truly shows her that even though it feels scary, the reward of venturing out of her comfort zone far outweighs the butterflies.

Out-of-the-box activities outside of school

Saturday mornings, and that space between 3pm and dinner are the perfect times for children to step out of their comfort zone and into something that will expand their creativity, resilience and life skills.

Unique outside-of-school programs like Gecko Ensembles, offered by Barking Gecko Theatre, encourage children to stretch their imaginations through weekly drama classes. It's a