“She was begging me to stay and not go but I just wanted to come up and do a job for the boys.”
His partner Anna Jovanovic’s waters had broken, she was in the early stages of labour, and she had no idea what lay ahead. First babies are like that. All the books and all the classes in all the world can’t prepare you for that moment when your body starts to do things you don’t understand and all you know for sure is that there’s no turning back. And that, in all likelihood, things are going to get a whole lot worse before they get better.
These are moments of true fear and confusion. And that’s the time that James Roberts decided to bolt.
Ah, footballers. Bless them. No matter how hard their hapless bosses try to make them appear like reconstructed, sensitive men who understand that women are flesh and blood too, they just keep putting their giant size 12 boots in it. Sometimes with their bosses’ help.
You see, the reason we know Roberts made the decision to leave his partner at her most vulnerable is because the Broncos issued a press release to tell us about it.
“Roberts was going to miss the birth after a making a selfless decision to put the team first and play against the Rabbitohs last Friday, after partner Anna went into labour only hours before kick-off,” it read. That same press release is the source of Roberts’ “begged me not to go” quote, which obviously seemed like a good idea to include at the time.
That ‘selfless decision’ has inflamed Planet Media this morning. Morning shows and opinion pieces have been lining up to point out that it was hardly Roberts who took one for the team by leaving home to play the Rabbitohs on Friday night, but Anna, the woman who was left facing childbirth without him.
That was her loss, not his, and really, it's completely understandable. Because there are few things more terrifying that watching someone you love go through enormous pain and being unable to stop it. There are few things more confronting than trying to support a woman through a process entirely out of your control.
In short, the delivery suite is a far more terrifying place than a football field. The stakes are higher, the pain is greater, and the fear of the unknown is a constant, nagging companion. All of those things are much scarier than having 25 tattooed giants bearing down on you, chasing a ball.