Another day, another story about a birthday party where no one rocks up.
This time, it was Minnesota mum, Jenny Moretter who was planning a 10th birthday party for her daughter Mackenzie.
After no one, NOT A SINGLE ONE of her fourth-grade classmates RSVP’d, she hit the panic button.
Why does my heart feel so sad? (via Facebook)
Her plea went viral, and so this story has a happy ending for the Moretter family. MacKenzie - who has an enlarged skull due to a rare genetic condition — ended up with a birthday party with hundreds of strangers, an outpouring of donations, so many birthday cards flooding in that they had to set up a special PO Box.
But for me it was bittersweet. 300 strangers converging on a party is nice. But where were the friends to begin with?
Last month it was another 10-year-old who invited all his classmates over for cake. Again, not a single one rocked up.
How is it that we live in a world where these mothers, who are presumably already in school communities, who presumably have neighbours, resort to reaching out to STRANGERS via the internet and pleading with them to rock up to a birthday celebration?
It's not just kids parties either. Anyone who has extended an invitation to others knows the unique anxiety of 'what if no one comes?'
Because inevitably, they don't.