There is truly nothing more painful than discovering there is ‘somebody else‘.
We are so curious about those closest to us that entire businesses are built on our desire to know the truth.
Private investigator Luke Athens sits at the helm of Heartbreakers, a company that has been revealing infidelity since 1996.
Of course, we believe it is always best to be upfront with your partner about any concerns, but Athens told Mamamia there are a few red flags you can look out for if you suspect there might be a secret lover.
The Telling Travel
“Travel often tells all. If you suspect that your partner is lying about where they have been an easy way to check is noting the kilometres of the car. This reveals if they are driving a different distance than they usually would, or if they’ve snuck out during the night or at a time they said they’d been home,” he said.
“Checking their Opal card (public transport card) statements also shows what suburbs they are travelling to and exactly where they hop on and off. Another great statement to check is their toll account.”
The Bin Trick
“Check their rubbish. Bins often hide a lot of clues about what someone has been doing and where. If there’s a receipt from a dinner for two at a nice restaurant, or an empty packet of condoms, these clues can give you a good indication of someone’s activities.”
The Story Behind The History
“Looking at the internet history on their computer also sheds light on what they don’t want you to see.”