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by Dr Tammy Nelson for Your Tango
After an affair, deciding to stay together may be one of the most difficult decisions you will ever make.
You have decided to listen to your heart and not to any of your well-meaning friends or relatives who may be telling you to leave. You both want to work on your relationship and are committed to a new monogamy, together.
So what’s next? A new sex life — with each other. You may realise by now that your sex life prior to the infidelity was a point of conflict, either you weren’t having enough of it or one of you was more satisfied than the other.
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Moving forward in a new relationship with each other means that your erotic recovery will be key to your new monogamy.
Remember, your erotic relationship is the thing that separates you from being merely roommates.
In order to move forward into a new romantic relationship together, this part of your relationship will take on a new level of importance for both of you. (Post continues after gallery.)