Love can happen when you least expect it.
When you very, very, very least expect it.
It certainly wasn’t what Gemma Sisia was hoping to find when she went on an African safari. On the plains of the Serengeti, this young Australian woman who’d just finished uni was ready to spot lions, tigers and elephants.
But a husband? No way.
Tanzania had big plans for Gemma Sisia, the former country-girl famous for starting up St. Jude’s School at the bottom of Mt. Kilimajaro. A school that started with three kids and now has 1900.
But she might not have started this dream, were it not for a safari bus driver dreaming about her.
The love story began before Gemma even knew it.
Listen: Gemma shares how it happened on the I Don’t Know How She Does It podcast.
Her soon-to-be Tanzanian husband spotted her walking around town and said to his mates, “see that girl, I’m going to marry her one day”.
And he did. But not without a rather convoluted plan, says Gemma.
“The safari. There [were] these boys who came up to [my traveller friend] Clare and I and said ‘hey girls, do you want to go on safari?’ and we’re saying ‘no, no, we’re fine, we’ve got our Lonely Planet books’ … and the boys said ‘girls, we’ll give you a lift to the hotel’ and we’re saying ‘no, no, don’t talk to strangers, we’re fine’ and so we get up the hill and we’re sweating …”
The boys beat them to their hotel, bought the tired girls a drink and signed them onto their safari company. Little did Gemma realise, they were about to create a fake problem to ensure Gemma met Richard.
“The next day we’re going through the safari and [the safari leader] Mike said, ‘we’ve got a bit of a problem, I have to wait for some Irish boys … but Richard here is going to be your driver’ … and I said ‘no worries’ and I still remember Richard. He had these black Levi’s on … I thought ‘he’s nice looking’ and I thought you can always admire but don’t touch.
“Anyway, I had a safari fling … I gave Richard a fake address … six months later, one of his relatives is in Immigration … so he got an East African passport … to travel to [me] in Uganda”.
The three day drive from Richard’s home town to where Gemma was assisting at a school, was worth the effort.
A few years later, they were married. Now, they have four children – Nathaniel (15), Jacob (13), Isabella (8) and Luisa (4).
But Gemma has heaps more kids than that. A whole school, actually.