Trigger warning: This post contains details of a sexual assault that may cause distress.
I dial the number anxiously and I dial ahead of the prompts because I’ve called enough times already to know to dial 6 for appointments.
I’ve already called the cancer clinic at my local hospital twice this week, this time I was calling to ensure that the receptionist at the clinic had followed through with my requests from my Monday conversation with a different receptionist.
My appointment was today, yet I was filled with dread at the idea of going because I had this sneaking suspicion that although I had requested a female gynaecologist already this week, they wouldn’t be following it through.
A woman answers, “Gynaecologist Cancer Clinic, how may I help you today?”
“Hi, so I have an appointment today and have actually already called up about this but I just wanted to check who my doctor is today and confirm my request?”
“Oh of course” she replies cheerfully and asks me my details to confirm my appointment.
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Having had three children, all delivered by male obstetricians, and having had WONDERFUL care, I imagine that a request for a female doctor could be seen as discriminatory. Surely it is not unlike asking for a white doctor rather than an Indian or Asian doctor which would be really offensive. If you do want a doctor of your own choosing so desperately, then you can always pay and go private.
If she had requested a female due to religious beliefs no one would have dared say a word. If I felt this strongly I would take myself to a female only clinic (we have them in Brisbane). Having had endo since my teens I've seen many different gynaecologists. Strangely it was a female who left me feeling horrible after she suggested that at 16 I'd been sexually active and caught an STD and should have told my mother the truth. I was very much a virgin and it was endo causing the pain.