By KRISTINE TAYLOR
It is the story of an improbable modern family – a back-to-front love affair where a woman seeks out and falls in love with an anonymous sperm donor who fathered her baby daughter.
Aminah Hart, Scott Andersen and daughter Leila. (Image from Australian Story)
In 2011, Aminah Hart was 42 and single and had lost two young sons to a rare genetic disorder that she eventually learned was passed on via a defective gene she carried.
Legislative changes passed in Victoria the previous year had opened up access to IVF for single women, giving Ms Hart one last chance of becoming a mother to a healthy baby.
“It takes the romance out of it a bit, doesn’t it, when you decide to take on donor sperm to try and have a baby,” Ms Hart said.
“It wasn’t going to be picture postcard, being single, but I was raised by an amazing single mother and she taught me that I could do it.”
Ms Hart was provided the details of three anonymous donors – just “three bits of paper” on each – detailing vital statistics, physical qualities, medical history and hobbies.
“And that’s kind of it,” Ms Hart said. “You’re making a choice on who the father might be.”
As she says in tonight’s episode of Australian Story, one of them stood out.
His name was Scott. He was a cattle breeder who coached AFL football. He was a father of four. And he described himself as “happy and healthy”.