When I say I’m afraid of coronavirus (or COVID-19), I usually get the same response: “Ah, don’t worry. It’s only killing old people. You’ll be fine.”
I know. I’ve seen the statistics. I almost definitely won’t die if I get it.
But when did we decide that elderly people’s lives don’t matter?
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Maybe I’m just feeling a bit raw because my mother died a few months ago. She was old, well over 80. But her death hurt – hurt me, hurt my dad, hurt my kids. Now I’m imagining that hurt multiplied all over Australia, due to the spread of coronavirus. And I can’t laugh at all the toilet paper memes in my Facebook feed.
If you haven’t seen the statistics, here they are. People in their 60s have a 3.6 per cent chance of dying if they get coronavirus. People in their 70s have an eight per cent chance of dying. People aged 80 and over have a 14.8 per cent chance of dying.
The three Australians who’ve died so far from coronavirus have been aged 78, 95 and 82. The 78-year-old was James Kwan, who died in isolation in WA. As Premier Mark McGowan said, the circumstances of his death were “very distressing” for his family.
“They couldn’t go in and touch him or hold his hand,” McGowan told the West Australian. “It would have been so tragically sad. I feel deeply for them in that circumstance. You don’t want to leave this world without someone holding your hand.”
My mum died a death that was as good as anyone could have hoped for. She had her children around her. We were holding her hands and telling her how much we loved her. We had barely left her bedside for days.
Coronavirus deaths may not be such good deaths. And that really does matter, as anyone who’s lost a close family member is aware.
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I agree with this. However, it's the same each year with the flu. We should be treating the flu like we are treating corona virus, as it's deadly and it kills thousands every year. Yet people refuse to vaccinate themselves, they still go out in public and infect others, they still go to work or school and they take no precautions to stop the spread of the infection. Masks should be worn every year so that we protect ourselves and others from flu. This is what needs mocking, the sheer panic over this, when the flu is treated like just another cold.
It's a related issue, sure, but bringing up whataboutisms detracts from the messages that should be getting out there about COVID-19. This is not the time to discuss, educate and debate how we deal with yearly influenza surges - that can come after we've dealt with the current crisis on our doorstop. We also need to stop people from conflating COVID-19 with influenza.
Disagree. This is a great time to talk about how the world has lost it's mind over this virus and not over the one that arrives every year to kill tens of thousands of people and that people are completely complacent to.
You must have information that the world's leading health authorities don't. The CDC, WHO authorities have all said COVID19 is not the flu. The mortality rate is much higher and long term damage to the lungs (even those of healthy people) can be devastating. The Italian Health system is almost under collapse trying to deal with the numbers of seriously ill people - numbers they do not see with their annual flu outbreaks. As for wearing masks, unless it is a N95 and correctly fitted, they provide little to no protection.
The difference is that because we have vaccinations and have built up defended to influenza, the curve of infections is flatter - so the peak is not so high and the health system doesn’t overload. Of course there are crazies who don’t believe in immunisation - but currently our health system can deal with it.
The problem with Covid is that if we don’t take precautions to flatten the curve - the health system will be unable to cope - meaning higher death rates. This is what we saw in Wuhan and what seems to be happening in Italy and other parts of Europe. The countries that acted fast and early have managed to spread the infections out over time - rather than being hit all at once.
This, all of this!
We rightly rail against sexism and racism, but unfortunately ageism is rife and people barely make a peep. People say derogatory or unfair things about older people they would never say about other minority groups. Ageism is insidious too and can affect across all kinds of domains, including (scarily) health care.
If you can't see the value in the lives of 'just' elderly people, then the problem is definitely with you, not them.
To the author, I'm very sorry for the loss of your mother and offer deepest condolences. When an older person dies, that loss cuts really deep. you may have had more time with them by your side... maybe you have never known life without them, which is wonderful, but also makes that loss just so difficult to bear. All the best.