Constance Hall and Denim Cooke had only been together six or seven months when she took a pregnancy test.
They were in Bali, and she had an inkling she might be pregnant.
Cooke wasn’t nervous, telling Hall’s cousin at the time, “she pisses on a stick once a month, she always thinks she’s pregnant”.
But this time, she was.
Hall has four children who she shares with her ex-partner Bill Mahon, and Cooke has two sons from a previous marriage. But even with a busy household of six kids, they had decided early on to have at least one child together.
Speaking to Mia Freedman for No Filter, Hall says the decision was “probably more driven by me”.
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“It felt like his ex partner… they shared something, and me and my ex partner shared something, and we were just so in love that there wouldn’t be any reason for us not to,” she says.
But there was one moving conversation in particular that was a catalyst in their decision to have another child.
“We were sitting in a winery in Margs [Margaret River],” Hall recalls, “and I said, ‘when we’re 70, and we’re looking down at all of our kids, won’t we always wonder what ours together would’ve looked like?’
“And [Denim] was like, ‘when you put it that way, yeah, you’re right.'”
So when Hall discovered she was pregnant in Bali, she knew what she wanted to do. That doesn’t mean, however, that there haven’t been moments of doubt throughout her pregnancy.