To say Victoria’s Kim Debron and her “Master” Joe have an unconventional relationship wouldn’t really do it justice.
The mum, who is in her 50s, says it best herself on her website, when she writes: “i am a collared slave, and i am owned by and married to Master Joe.” Beside the text, is an oval-shaped image of Kim wearing a collar. It is engraved “MJ’s girl.”
(Kim uses ‘i’ instead of ‘I’ when referring to herself.)
Speaking to news.com.au about her relationship, Kim explained: “i spent most of my adult life being in charge, running a riding school, running a section in a government department, running a business with my first husband, being a single parent…
“For me, knowing i am His collared and owned slave, means that i have given Him all of me that there is to give. It means that He owns my body, He controls my mind, He fills my heart, and He soothes my soul.”
Admittedly, relinquishing all control of her life has not come without difficulty.
“In the early days of our relationship i found submitting to His will or His decisions, was often difficult because i had been in charge of myself for so long,” she told the publication, adding that she can add input into discussions with her Master, and that “he may change the decision” based on her feelings.
So, what does the average day look like, when your husband is also your “Master”?
The average day, Kim says, looks fairly similar to that of any modern woman, with added chores, strict names of “Sir” and “Master”, asking permission to go to the bathroom, and the occasional spank on the rear of course.