Hannah’s 11-year-old daughter was chatting with a friend on Facebook and was asked to turn on the webcam. She felt strange about it, but also obligated to do so. She used a teddy bear to hide herself.
An 11-year-old girl sitting in her bedroom, chatting online, a stuffed toy the only barrier between her and her predator.
Of course, she didn’t know he was a predator. His Facebook name was “Jack Smith”. They had 32 mutual friends. She guessed she must have known him. His profile picture was blurry, but it was definitely of a teenage boy wearing a school uniform.
“I didn’t want my daughter to have Facebook: the legal age is 13 and she was still only 11. Her older sister had it and all the kids at school were talking about it; she said she felt left out,” Hannah wrote for The Independent.
“She would pester me daily: ‘It’s not fair, Maddy has it, Kate has it, why can’t I have it? Please mum please mum please mum’.”
Hannah’s daughter thought she was sharing laughs and thoughts and emojis with a friend of her friends, Jack Smith. Until she turned the webcam on and saw an adult man masturbating while watching her holding up her teddy bear.
“My daughter’s first sexual experience was seeing the penis of a paedophile masturbating in her bedroom,” Hannah wrote.
“His method was simple yet highly effective. He managed to make ‘friends’ with other girls at her school and by the time he came to request my daughter, they had 32 mutual friends.”
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The girl shut the computer. She signed off. But he kept going – this time through messages. Sexually abusive, explicit, horrible, awful messages sent from a man in his late 20s to a girl less than half his age.
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I've just had realised that our router has software that enables me to block the internet from individual devices in hourly blocks. I can also block particular websites. It's a great tool.
I don't have an 11 year old so I won't pass judgment on the parents decision to allow their child on social media, however... What kind of parents allow their 6 year olds to surf the net by themselves. No way would I let my 6yo alone in her bedroom with the Internet. She's been surfing the Internet looking for My Little Pony videos and one of the videos that popped up was a video of people using a pony tail sexually. I shut it down before she knew what was happening thank goodness but if she were alone it would have been the next video that popped up. It's scary.