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Celebrity mums were forced to express breastmilk in the toilets at the Oscars.

It seems that even celebrity mum’s aren’t immune to society’s lack of support for breastfeeding.

At the Academy awards on Sunday night (Monday, our time) the lines for the ladies bathrooms were brimming. Not with full bladders from the free-flowing champagne but rather with breastfeeding mothers who were offered no better alternative than to express in the toilets.

Best supporting actor nominee,Tom Hardy, inadvertently brought the issue to light after he was asked why he was hanging around the ladies toilets by an L.A. Times Reporter. His response was that he was waiting for his wife, Charlotte Riley to finish breast pumping. Being a new mother she “has to do it every hour” he said.

Charlotte was not alone juggling of celebrity life and the realities of motherhood at the Oscars. Even musical phenomenon Adele said that she was “running to the toilets…to pump and dump.” She even added that “lots of people were (doing it). All these Hollywood superstars, lined up and breastfeeding in the toilets.”

Charlottle Riley with her husband Tom Hardy. (Getty)
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Really, Hollywood?

With all the glitz and glamour, excess and opulence of the night no one thought to provide a better location for breastfeeding mothers than the toilets? The same facilities for number 1's, 2’s and anything else we can assume happens at these kind of events?

As a breastfeeding mum myself, it’s a situation I am all too familiar with. Too many times I have needed to express when I’m without my baby. More often than not this is in a bathroom of a wedding venue or other location, concealing the tell tale sound of a breast pump, trying not to tie up the facilities too long so that people can use them for their intended purpose, and desperately trying not to smell all the smells. 

Why do I feel a kind of shame associated with pumping? Like it's ok to nurse my baby when she's with me but we haven't quite got to the point as a society where we can openly accept all the realities which come from a feeding relationship? Namely, when I can't feed my baby, I need to express. The milk doesn't magically just stop because I have to wear a pretty dress and nor does it for celebrity mums.

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I guess I just didn’t think that at an event like the Oscar awards, full of influential, powerful women would society still be so primitive and unsupportive of breastfeeding mothers. 

Have we truly not normalised breastfeeding enough that A list stars like Adele still need to spend their evening holed up in a toilet stall attempting to relieve their engorged breasts and maintain their supply?

In a year which saw the Oscar’s face strong claims of discrimination, we still have to deal with event organisers not giving adequate (if any) consideration to a completely normal situation affecting so many attendees and pretend like this is ok?

I find it incredible that facilitators had enough foresight to arrange designated smoking areas with musical entertainment and refreshments and yet still couldn’t find a room better than the toilets for feeding mothers.

Olivia Wilde at the 2016 Oscar's. (Getty)

Perhaps the lack of nursing room was merely an oversight, an ignorance perhaps, but with so many prominent attendees in the one space who have advocated for normalising breastfeeding, it seems perhaps a lacklustre excuse.

What I do hope is that those breastfeeding mothers like Charlotte Riley and Adele stop accepting this kind of discrimination and lack of understanding as normal, just the way it is. Like all women, they deserve better.

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