When my second baby was three weeks old, she caught what I thought was a little cold.
I hated seeing her sick, of course, but I actually wasn’t all that worried; kids get colds, I thought. She’ll be fine by morning.
The next morning Noa still had a fever, so we took her to our family doctor, ‘just to be safe.’ I completely expected him to prescribe some baby Panadol and send us on our way, but his concerned expression said otherwise: “I think you should pop up to the hospital,” he said.
Off we went to the emergency room, where we were quickly spirited past the two-dozen injured souls waiting to be seen.
Things suddenly turned real. The doctor gently but immediately took my baby from my arms and said, “We have to do some tests, including a lumbar puncture, ultrasound, x-rays and ECG. Your little one is very sick and we need to find out why.”
Four days, five doctors, dozens of tests, virtually no sleep and one very unhappy baby later, we had a diagnosis: viral meningitis caused by enterovirus.
Thankfully, she made a full recovery and she’s now a happy, healthy, one-year-old ball of energy.
But that experience was terrifying. Surreal.
Despite the doctor telling me over and over, “This is not your fault,” I couldn’t help but blame myself. Did I not wash my hands enough? Fail to sterilise her dummies? As parents we’re meant to protect our babies and I felt like I’d failed her.
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I had mine when I was in my 3rd trimester. This year it seemed the midwives were encouraged to recommend it to pregnant mums. I didn't hear about it with my 1st child in 2012.
I had a sore arm for a few days and that was it..
Oh and my son had meningitis at 14months Sarah - an awful experience! :(