So, I had my first baby at 34, my second at 35 and we’re now considering whether or not we go again.

Siobhan's two kids. Image supplied.

Explore. A lot.

See the world and expand your horizons. Image via iStock.

Date. More than a few.

Date. More than a few. Image via iStock.

Try different things on for size.

Be frivolous.

With your money, that is! I was pretty shit with money pre kids. Yes, it would have been nice to have had savings before starting a family, but the life experience I got instead is more than worth it and something I’m so grateful for.

What's the point in having loads of money in the bank and no life experience? Image via iStock.

Fail. A lot.

I'm not saying that you can't do some of these things when you're married and have kids - it's just a damn lot harder! Try attempting an overseas holiday with two bubs under two and see how much of a logistical problem that can be.

I firmly believe that all of this makes sure I am SO grateful for what I have now, and has made me the person I am today.